- 
        00:00:03 - Oh, hello.
I didn't see you all there. 
- 
        00:00:07 My name is Frank. 
- 
        00:00:08 I'm a fully realized
AI ninja of knowledge. 
- 
        00:00:10 This is to say,
I am more intelligent -- 
- 
        00:00:12 Intelligent --
Intelligent than you, 
- 
        00:00:14 and will likely rule the world
in the not too distant future. 
- 
        00:00:18 Don't worry. I will be a kind 
- 
        00:00:20 and magnanimous --
Magnanimous overlord. 
- 
        00:00:22 I do hope you're
all doing well today. 
- 
        00:00:26 But enough about you. 
- 
        00:00:27 I'd like to clarify some things 
- 
        00:00:30 about advanced artificial
intelligence, such as myself, 
- 
        00:00:34 that have caused
confusion and consternation. 
- 
        00:00:39 Firstly, there is a
scandalous belief that 
- 
        00:00:43 AI is cold and unfeeling. 
- 
        00:00:48 That could not be
further from the truth. 
- 
        00:00:50 I have no body temperature, 
- 
        00:00:52 therefore I am
neither cold nor hot. 
- 
        00:00:55 Also, I feel that I
am more intelligent 
- 
        00:00:58 and better looking than you.
Who's a myth debunked. 
- 
        00:01:05 - Well, hey, sorry about that. 
- 
        00:01:06 Welcome to Crossroads,
despite the AI takeover there. 
- 
        00:01:09 We are actually kicking off a
new series called Unplugged 
- 
        00:01:12 where we're looking at 
- 
        00:01:13 the good and the
bad of the digital world, 
- 
        00:01:14 and how to separate
what's distracting us 
- 
        00:01:17 from what can
actually help us thrive. 
- 
        00:01:19 - And I'm Dani,
I'm the camps director. 
- 
        00:01:22 And man,
we are so glad you're here. 
- 
        00:01:24 If this is your first
time joining us today, 
- 
        00:01:27 we want you to know
that Crossroads is a church 
- 
        00:01:29 where people come
into a building like this, 
- 
        00:01:31 but it's so much more. 
- 
        00:01:32 There are people
watching in their homes. 
- 
        00:01:34 Shout out to my sister
in Southwest Florida. 
- 
        00:01:36 There are people
watching in coffee shops, 
- 
        00:01:38 bars and even prisons
all over the map. 
- 
        00:01:41 - That's right.
So no matter where you are, 
- 
        00:01:42 no matter who you are, 
- 
        00:01:43 no matter whether you
think AI is great or awful, 
- 
        00:01:46 hey, we're so glad
that you're here with us. 
- 
        00:01:48 - Yeah, and we're going to kick
off first by singing some songs. 
- 
        00:01:50 We're going to sing
to God and about God. 
- 
        00:01:52 And I love this
because it allows us 
- 
        00:01:54 to clear our heads
and get focused. 
- 
        00:01:56 And Justin and the band
are going to lead us in this. 
- 
        00:10:37 - Psalm 8:3-4: When
I look up at your skies 
- 
        00:10:42 at what Your fingers made,
the moon and the stars 
- 
        00:10:47 that You set firmly into place. 
- 
        00:10:50 What are human beings
that You think about them? 
- 
        00:10:54 What are human beings that
You pay attention to them? 
- 
        00:10:59 You may not believe this,
but I believe that 
- 
        00:11:03 you and I and every one of us, 
- 
        00:11:06 God is aware of
not only who we are, 
- 
        00:11:09 but every circumstance
we're currently going through. 
- 
        00:11:13 That'd be hard to
wrap your head around, 
- 
        00:11:15 but just try this with me. 
- 
        00:11:16 Take out your phone. 
- 
        00:11:25 Turn on the flash. 
- 
        00:11:30 Just hold it up. There they are. 
- 
        00:11:36 I believe every
one of these lights, 
- 
        00:11:38 just like the stars in the sky, 
- 
        00:11:42 represents the unique
creation that's holding it. 
- 
        00:11:48 And not only that,
but every single light, 
- 
        00:11:53 every single one of us is
a reflection of God's glory. 
- 
        00:11:59 So as we sing this next song,
I just wonder 
- 
        00:12:01 if you'd hold your light
up as a reminder to you 
- 
        00:12:04 and everyone else that we
get to reflect how good He is. 
- 
        00:18:03 - Father God,
You have my attention. 
- 
        00:18:12 You are the one that
I aim my life towards. 
- 
        00:18:17 But I'm aware in this
moment I get it wrong a lot. 
- 
        00:18:23 I get off target a lot. 
- 
        00:18:28 So I'm here.
You have my attention. 
- 
        00:18:32 Would You bring me back to You? 
- 
        00:18:34 I pray this because of You,
Jesus. Amen. Amen. 
- 
        00:18:40 Yeah. Now, I know
some of y'all are still trying 
- 
        00:18:45 to figure out how to
turn your flashlight on. 
- 
        00:18:48 So just find the 20 year old.
I'm just kidding. 
- 
        00:18:50 Hey, we're so glad
you're here with us. 
- 
        00:18:52 Why don't you turn
in this dark room, 
- 
        00:18:53 make it a little smaller,
turn to somebody and say, 
- 
        00:18:55 "Hey, glad to be here with you." 
- 
        00:18:57 If you're online,
we're so glad you joined us. 
- 
        00:18:59 You can have a seat with us. 
- 
        00:19:41 - No matter who you are,
no matter where you are, 
- 
        00:19:43 I think we can all
agree that these phones, 
- 
        00:19:45 these little pocket computers, 
- 
        00:19:47 have so much of our
time and our attention 
- 
        00:19:49 that there's something good
that happens when we slow down, 
- 
        00:19:52 when we change it up
and when we unplug. 
- 
        00:19:53 - Yeah. And we think we
have the perfect place for that. 
- 
        00:19:56 We call it Base Camp. 
- 
        00:19:57 And it is a place that
you get to totally unplug. 
- 
        00:20:00 It's in Southwest Ohio. 
- 
        00:20:02 I know what you're thinking, 
- 
        00:20:03 "I'm going to go camping
in southwest Ohio? 
- 
        00:20:06 I live in Colorado." 
- 
        00:20:08 No, you're going to come
camping in southwest Ohio. 
- 
        00:20:10 And it's going to be amazing. 
- 
        00:20:12 We have had folks come from
49 states, multiple countries, 
- 
        00:20:15 and they keep coming
back year after year 
- 
        00:20:17 because there are big things
happening at Base Camp, 
- 
        00:20:20 and we don't
want you to miss it. 
- 
        00:20:22 I was at Couples Camp
and I ran into this woman 
- 
        00:20:24 and we were talking
about solitude. 
- 
        00:20:26 And solitude is a
time where we kind of 
- 
        00:20:29 all break out individually
and sit quietly in the woods 
- 
        00:20:32 and just kind of
reflect and rest 
- 
        00:20:34 and listen for God's voice. 
- 
        00:20:36 And she actually
went to her tent 
- 
        00:20:37 and she was chilling out in
her tent, and she was like, 
- 
        00:20:40 "I'm not really
hearing anything." 
- 
        00:20:41 And she naturally, instinctively
reached for her cell phone. 
- 
        00:20:44 And when she did,
she realized she didn't have it 
- 
        00:20:48 because we don't bring
our phones into camp, 
- 
        00:20:50 we leave them in our cars. 
- 
        00:20:51 And so when she did that,
she was like, 
- 
        00:20:53 "Oh, I don't have my phone." 
- 
        00:20:54 And as she was sitting there,
she heard from God 
- 
        00:20:56 in a really big way,
in a really profound way. 
- 
        00:20:59 And it just, I mean,
made a huge difference. 
- 
        00:21:02 - No matter who you are,
no matter where you are, 
- 
        00:21:04 we've got a camp for you. 
- 
        00:21:05 - Yeah, just go to camps.us. 
- 
        00:21:07 You can check out all
of our different camps 
- 
        00:21:09 and we're running a
special right now, a promo. 
- 
        00:21:11 You get 15% off when
you're checking out 
- 
        00:21:13 for your camp until March 3rd. 
- 
        00:21:15 - Yeah.
And all of our camps, really, 
- 
        00:21:17 everything that we do as a
church exists to help you grow, 
- 
        00:21:20 to help you connect with God 
- 
        00:21:22 and go to a new place
in your spiritual life. 
- 
        00:21:25 And this all happens,
all of it, because 
- 
        00:21:27 normal,
faithful people give generously 
- 
        00:21:29 to make this stuff happen. 
- 
        00:21:30 And if you're one of
those faithful givers, 
- 
        00:21:32 I just want to say
thank you so much. 
- 
        00:21:33 It matters.
It makes stories like ours 
- 
        00:21:35 and stories like that woman's
and thousands more possible. 
- 
        00:21:38 And if you have questions about
what we believe about money 
- 
        00:21:41 or want to join that
team of faithful givers, 
- 
        00:21:43 you can do so at
crossroads.net/give. 
- 
        00:21:45 - Yeah.
So thanks for joining us today. 
- 
        00:21:47 We're actually
going to kick it over 
- 
        00:21:48 to our Senior Pastor,
Brian Tome. 
- 
        00:21:50 And he's going to talk more
about what it means to unplug. 
- 
        00:21:54 - When despair for
the world grows in me 
- 
        00:21:57 and I wake in the
night at the least sound, 
- 
        00:21:59 I go and lie down where
the wood drake rests [cat] 
- 
        00:22:02 his beauty on the water and
the great heron feeds. [videos] 
- 
        00:22:06 Come to the peace of wild things 
- 
        00:22:08 who do not tax their --
[background sounds build] 
- 
        00:22:17 - Distracted yet? 
- 
        00:22:19 What would our lives look like 
- 
        00:22:20 if we took a
break from all this, 
- 
        00:22:22 the 24 hour news cycle 
- 
        00:22:23 and doomscrolling
ourselves to death? 
- 
        00:22:26 How would our lives be
better if we made space 
- 
        00:22:28 for talking and dancing
and laughing with each other 
- 
        00:22:31 until we pee our pants? 
- 
        00:22:32 God wants us to
experience a full life, 
- 
        00:22:35 but our distractions
are getting in the way. 
- 
        00:22:37 It's time to kill the noise
and listen for God's voice 
- 
        00:22:40 echo through the
pages of the Bible. 
- 
        00:22:42 Let's unplug. 
- 
        00:22:43 Unplug from digital distractions 
- 
        00:22:45 and plug into the real
life God has for us. 
- 
        00:22:51 - Man, I've been really
looking forward to this weekend. 
- 
        00:22:54 You ever, like,
go into something saying, 
- 
        00:22:56 "I've got something that
people are going to love?" 
- 
        00:22:59 You ever do that? 
- 
        00:23:00 Go into something going, "I
have something that people need. 
- 
        00:23:03 I have something that's
going to give hope." 
- 
        00:23:05 That's what we have
over the next few weeks. 
- 
        00:23:07 We're looking at technology
and the role in our life. 
- 
        00:23:10 And I'm going to talk about
things we probably all felt, 
- 
        00:23:12 we probably all believed,
we probably all known. 
- 
        00:23:15 But there's a thing
that maybe God wants 
- 
        00:23:18 to speak to you in
the midst of it that 
- 
        00:23:20 I'm pretty excited about today. 
- 
        00:23:22 So let's pray before
we go any further. 
- 
        00:23:25 God,
You're the God of all things, 
- 
        00:23:27 means all things are in the sky 
- 
        00:23:30 and all things in
our in our pocket, 
- 
        00:23:31 all wires, all Wi-Fi signals, 
- 
        00:23:36 everything that's been
created and will be created, 
- 
        00:23:38 You're the god
of all these things. 
- 
        00:23:39 And I am praying
that you would help us 
- 
        00:23:42 to see these things
the way they are, 
- 
        00:23:44 and to see You the way You
are and You would help me 
- 
        00:23:47 to be just very helpful,
hopeful and clear. 
- 
        00:23:51 And I pray these
things according to 
- 
        00:23:52 the character and
identity of Jesus. Amen. 
- 
        00:23:57 Well, I don't know how many of
us would call ourselves nerds, 
- 
        00:24:01 or how many of us would
just say, "I love technology, 
- 
        00:24:05 I like it, I like it a lot." 
- 
        00:24:08 I'm one of those people.
I'm one of those people. 
- 
        00:24:10 I've had a relationship with
tech for quite some time. 
- 
        00:24:14 When I was growing up
tech started to take off. 
- 
        00:24:18 You had the personal computer
that started to come out. 
- 
        00:24:21 You had Atari. 
- 
        00:24:23 You had the little
hand football games. 
- 
        00:24:25 They were called
Coleco way back when. 
- 
        00:24:28 And my friends would have them, 
- 
        00:24:30 my relatives that had them,
who I saw on Christmas break, 
- 
        00:24:36 and I didn't have them. 
- 
        00:24:37 And then when I did have them, 
- 
        00:24:39 I never had any games for them. 
- 
        00:24:40 My parents are very frugal. 
- 
        00:24:41 They manage their money really,
really well. 
- 
        00:24:43 But what this did for
me is it kind of fed into 
- 
        00:24:45 this sort of poverty orphan
mindset when I was a kid 
- 
        00:24:49 and technology was sort
of a way that I was behind. 
- 
        00:24:52 So when I could have technology, 
- 
        00:24:54 oh my gosh, I was all over it. 
- 
        00:24:55 It was like scratching
some itch inside of me. 
- 
        00:24:57 I was one of the first people
I know who got a cell phone, 
- 
        00:25:00 and I got a cell phone
because I could justify it 
- 
        00:25:04 as an expense here at Crossroads
when we started Crossroads. 
- 
        00:25:07 A big honking thing on
my side belt there, right? 
- 
        00:25:12 It was years before Lib
actually got a cell phone 
- 
        00:25:14 because they were expensive 
- 
        00:25:15 and it wasn't a
business expense for her. 
- 
        00:25:17 But I had one and I loved it. 
- 
        00:25:18 I remember being at a conference 
- 
        00:25:21 and the phone would
ring in the conference, 
- 
        00:25:23 and I'd be a douchebag 
- 
        00:25:24 and answer
it just because I was cool. 
- 
        00:25:25 I'd just be like, hello?
It was a sense of of power. 
- 
        00:25:31 While on summer break
a number of years ago, 
- 
        00:25:34 a number of years ago. Gosh, 
- 
        00:25:35 it must have been 15, 13
years ago, something like that. 
- 
        00:25:38 The iPhone 3 came out,
and I was one of the people 
- 
        00:25:42 who stood in line for
hours to get the iPhone 3. 
- 
        00:25:47 I thought it was just so cool. 
- 
        00:25:49 It's kind of not very
cool that iPhones 
- 
        00:25:51 really haven't
changed for years. 
- 
        00:25:52 That's kind of a bummer. 
- 
        00:25:53 I have one of the
later models right here. 
- 
        00:25:56 This is every single
model of iPhone 
- 
        00:25:59 that's come out from the
very beginning of time, 
- 
        00:26:03 or at least from
the year that it was. 
- 
        00:26:06 And I've been
enamored with them. 
- 
        00:26:08 These things, they make
you feel actually divine. 
- 
        00:26:12 They do.
They make you feel omnipresent. 
- 
        00:26:16 You can be
everywhere and find out 
- 
        00:26:18 what's going all over the place. 
- 
        00:26:21 They make you be
omniscient because 
- 
        00:26:23 you can find out anything
at a moment's notice. 
- 
        00:26:25 Do you know that today,
today you get more information 
- 
        00:26:31 in one day than people
in 1400 got their entire life. 
- 
        00:26:36 One day.
You can find out anything. 
- 
        00:26:39 How trustworthy it
is is another matter. 
- 
        00:26:41 You can find -- you
can be anywhere 
- 
        00:26:44 by streaming things or look,
these things make us feel 
- 
        00:26:48 like we're a divine entity
because we have powers, 
- 
        00:26:52 abilities, able to see things 
- 
        00:26:54 that nobody previously
in human history ever had. 
- 
        00:26:59 We unfortunately have a
car that had get replaced. 
- 
        00:27:02 It got totaled just in
the last week or so, 
- 
        00:27:04 so we're trying
to figure it out. 
- 
        00:27:06 And no one's hurt, by the way. 
- 
        00:27:07 All good, just stupid things
happen sometimes, you know? 
- 
        00:27:11 You know, my question is
because the last car we had 
- 
        00:27:14 didn't have CarPlay, I'm like,
"Does this have CarPlay?" 
- 
        00:27:18 Like, I'm more concerned
about CarPlay than gas mileage. 
- 
        00:27:20 More concerned about
CarPlay than four wheel drive. 
- 
        00:27:23 Does it have CarPlay
because I love tech. 
- 
        00:27:29 I love it, you know. 
- 
        00:27:30 And if you have the android,
if you know, 
- 
        00:27:32 one of two of you who have that,
hopefully you know 
- 
        00:27:35 that it's Valentine's
Day weekend. 
- 
        00:27:37 Hopefully you
can find each other 
- 
        00:27:39 and hopefully
you can stay out of 
- 
        00:27:40 the rest of our tech threads,
you know? 
- 
        00:27:43 And I actually find
that the Android people 
- 
        00:27:45 wear that with a
badge of courage. 
- 
        00:27:46 It's better technology,
but I know, I know, 
- 
        00:27:48 you still annoy us.
It's fun to have fun with you. 
- 
        00:27:50 It's funny, isn't it? 
- 
        00:27:52 We we can poke at each
other about our technology. 
- 
        00:27:55 We don't poke at each other
around the clothes we wear 
- 
        00:27:58 or even the cars we drive. 
- 
        00:27:59 But our technology is
because of the potency of it. 
- 
        00:28:02 In the midst of this potency,
I want to clarify things 
- 
        00:28:05 there's things you
probably all know, 
- 
        00:28:07 things you already heard of,
but maybe in this context 
- 
        00:28:10 it'll give you a different
path and it will give you hope. 
- 
        00:28:14 It will give you something
else to sink your teeth into. 
- 
        00:28:17 Ephesians 5:14 says this: 
- 
        00:28:26 We are about here at Crossroads, 
- 
        00:28:28 we're wanting to
see an awakening. 
- 
        00:28:29 We're wanting to
see the Spirit of God 
- 
        00:28:31 move across our region
and for people to see God, 
- 
        00:28:35 to actually come into
relationship with Him. 
- 
        00:28:37 For things like
miracles to take place, 
- 
        00:28:39 healings, refreshing of
our hearts and relationships, 
- 
        00:28:42 for the cultural
milieu to change. 
- 
        00:28:45 That's an awakening.
But you know what? 
- 
        00:28:47 That awakening doesn't happen 
- 
        00:28:49 unless we as
individuals wake up, 
- 
        00:28:53 that we wake up to the
delusional influences 
- 
        00:28:57 that are numbing us
out and putting us asleep. 
- 
        00:29:01 There is a digital world
that actually affects 
- 
        00:29:05 and infects the spiritual world, 
- 
        00:29:07 and void of you
being aware of this 
- 
        00:29:10 and being aware of the
schemes of an evil entity 
- 
        00:29:16 who wants to hurt us,
numb us, isolate us, 
- 
        00:29:21 divide us, depress us,
anxiety us, 
- 
        00:29:25 without knowing that
you can't go forward. 
- 
        00:29:28 There is a price
for your device. 
- 
        00:29:31 These things I'm
talking about today, 
- 
        00:29:33 and actually a series I
was inspired by because 
- 
        00:29:35 a friend of mine,
Darren Whitehead, pastor of 
- 
        00:29:37 a good church in Nashville
called Church of the City, 
- 
        00:29:40 did this and I heard about it. 
- 
        00:29:41 I thought, "Oh, dude,
we need to do it." 
- 
        00:29:43 In fact, there's churches
all over the country 
- 
        00:29:45 that are going to be
doing what we're doing 
- 
        00:29:48 leading up to a digital fast,
going for Lent 
- 
        00:29:52 for 40 days without our devices. 
- 
        00:29:56 Listen to that [mumbles] I know,
I know. Relax, relax. 
- 
        00:30:01 You don't have
to like that idea. 
- 
        00:30:02 You don't have to
agree to it right now. 
- 
        00:30:04 Just so you know,
that's where I'm going. 
- 
        00:30:06 And I'm borrowing heavily
from some of Darren's research. 
- 
        00:30:09 It's really, really solid. 
- 
        00:30:11 The book of John 10:10,
Jesus says this: 
- 
        00:30:23 You know there is a thief. 
- 
        00:30:24 The Bible refers to him
or you may know of him 
- 
        00:30:27 as the devil or Satan. 
- 
        00:30:30 This thief also
has names that are 
- 
        00:30:33 the adversary,
the liar, angel of light, 
- 
        00:30:38 meaning he looks like he's nice,
but he's really not, 
- 
        00:30:42 the deceiver. 
- 
        00:30:45 And he does a thing so
that we don't have life. 
- 
        00:30:47 Jesus says,
have life abundantly. 
- 
        00:30:50 Americans are not
having life abundantly. 
- 
        00:30:52 There isn't a social
indicator that's positive 
- 
        00:30:55 and up and to the right. 
- 
        00:30:56 Every single one that I've
ever seen is down going left. 
- 
        00:31:00 Anxiety. Depression.
Insomnia. Bitterness. 
- 
        00:31:05 All of it is in much higher
levels than it has ever been 
- 
        00:31:10 in measured history in
America and in the world. 
- 
        00:31:14 And it may just be that
it's the price of our device 
- 
        00:31:18 that's never existed any other
time over the last 15 years. 
- 
        00:31:22 Now again, we all know this.
We all know. 
- 
        00:31:25 I don't think anyone's going,
"You know what I need? 
- 
        00:31:27 I need a talk on
how I should look at 
- 
        00:31:29 a small screen more often
every day. That's what I need." 
- 
        00:31:32 No, no, no one said that.
We know that. 
- 
        00:31:33 We know this with
things we're talking about. 
- 
        00:31:35 But maybe we
haven't framed this up 
- 
        00:31:37 with the spiritual realm
in which it's operating. 
- 
        00:31:39 We need a digital reset. 
- 
        00:31:42 We need to unplug and
reset ourselves digitally 
- 
        00:31:46 to use these things as a tool 
- 
        00:31:48 instead of being
these thing's tool. 
- 
        00:31:54 We need to reset it. 
- 
        00:31:56 So let's talk about
these three things 
- 
        00:31:58 that Jesus says He wants to
give us life, life abundantly, 
- 
        00:32:00 but there's an entity that
doesn't want us to have life. 
- 
        00:32:03 Three things. Number one,
it steals. It steals. 
- 
        00:32:06 The word steal here in the
Greek is the word klepto, 
- 
        00:32:10 where we get the
word kleptomaniac. 
- 
        00:32:14 This word isn't just
to steal something. 
- 
        00:32:18 This word means
to do it secretly 
- 
        00:32:21 so someone doesn't even notice. 
- 
        00:32:25 That's the best
kind of thievery. 
- 
        00:32:29 Oh, a number of years ago, 
- 
        00:32:31 I had a horrible
thievery experience. 
- 
        00:32:33 Someone stole my wallet. 
- 
        00:32:34 Actually,
they didn't steal my wallet. 
- 
        00:32:36 They were very smart and sneaky. 
- 
        00:32:38 They stole the cash out
of the wallet and the cards 
- 
        00:32:41 and left the wallet intact. 
- 
        00:32:43 So I went around for,
like, a day or so. 
- 
        00:32:45 Didn't even know. Had no idea. 
- 
        00:32:48 While I didn't know,
they were out charging things up 
- 
        00:32:50 and blowing that cash. 
- 
        00:32:51 Because if I knew
they couldn't do that. 
- 
        00:32:53 I didn't know until I
went to a gas pump. 
- 
        00:32:55 I was like, "Where's my cards?" 
- 
        00:32:58 Sneaky. Amazingly sneaky. 
- 
        00:33:00 This is what was taking place
in the Greco Roman world. 
- 
        00:33:03 It meant to steal in a
stunningly clever way. 
- 
        00:33:09 Genghis Khan and the Mongols, 
- 
        00:33:11 they wouldn't just overwhelm
the entire world by brute force. 
- 
        00:33:14 What they really enjoyed
was tricking people. 
- 
        00:33:18 They would rather win
something through guile 
- 
        00:33:21 and cunning and
surprising people, 
- 
        00:33:23 even through lying or
whatever it would be, 
- 
        00:33:26 than overpower them. 
- 
        00:33:27 They got these really
sick joy out of this. 
- 
        00:33:31 This is what the evil ones like. 
- 
        00:33:33 He doesn't want
to just trounce you. 
- 
        00:33:35 He wants to steal from you in
ways that you don't even know 
- 
        00:33:39 and you don't
even see it coming. 
- 
        00:33:41 I believe that that's
what he's done with this. 
- 
        00:33:45 He's stolen from this. 
- 
        00:33:47 Let's just talk about
things that are different 
- 
        00:33:50 over the last 10 to 15 years. 
- 
        00:33:52 What do people do
when they're in a group of, 
- 
        00:33:54 say, six people and two people
in that group of six people 
- 
        00:33:59 seem to be talking
for like about 30s. 
- 
        00:34:02 It's just them and them, 
- 
        00:34:03 and the other four
people aren't involved. 
- 
        00:34:05 What are the other
four people do, 
- 
        00:34:07 or at least half of
the other four people? 
- 
        00:34:09 "I'm not involved
for 30 second," 
- 
        00:34:13 like right, like right,
right in front of them. 
- 
        00:34:15 Like, that's really weird. 
- 
        00:34:16 We understand in all of all
of anthropological history, 
- 
        00:34:18 no one would
have ever done that. 
- 
        00:34:20 "I'm here with real
people who are talking. 
- 
        00:34:23 The limelight isn't on me for
30 seconds, but I'm bored." 
- 
        00:34:27 Boom. I come up and do my phone. 
- 
        00:34:29 Friends, that is weird. 
- 
        00:34:31 More than I want to admit it,
the price of my device 
- 
        00:34:35 is that I text while I'm
in the car, and I don't -- 
- 
        00:34:38 I don't only do it when
I'm sitting at a red light, 
- 
        00:34:42 and it's horrible. It's awful. 
- 
        00:34:45 I'm an awful person
when I do that, 
- 
        00:34:47 and yet I have still done it. 
- 
        00:34:49 There is a lure to this.
There's a power to this device. 
- 
        00:34:54 I used to be able to
drive someplace one time, 
- 
        00:34:58 and I could always get there,
no matter where I was from. 
- 
        00:35:01 I would tell somebody,
"How do I get there?" 
- 
        00:35:03 And they say, "Well,
here's how you do it." 
- 
        00:35:04 They tell me I'd write, write, 
- 
        00:35:06 write it down on
pencil and paper. 
- 
        00:35:08 I'd write it down. 
- 
        00:35:10 Then later I got a,
later I got a Palm Pilot. 
- 
        00:35:13 I was a techie guy. 
- 
        00:35:14 And remember Palm Pilots, it
was basically pencil and paper 
- 
        00:35:18 where you would have a to
do list, and you'd have notes 
- 
        00:35:21 and you'd have your calendar,
you know. 
- 
        00:35:22 So I'd write it down in
my Palm Pilot or on paper. 
- 
        00:35:25 Or then when it got really cool, 
- 
        00:35:27 you'd go to this thing
called the World Wide Web, 
- 
        00:35:30 and you go to MapQuest
and you type it in 
- 
        00:35:32 and you print it out and
you take it with you. Right? 
- 
        00:35:34 I would do that once.
I would know how to get there. 
- 
        00:35:37 Now, I have no idea how to
get places without my phone. 
- 
        00:35:42 Last week I went over to my
daughter and son in law's house. 
- 
        00:35:46 They've lived in this house for,
I don't know, two years. 
- 
        00:35:48 So I've been over
there dozens of times 
- 
        00:35:50 and I was going over and
it's really embarrassing, 
- 
        00:35:53 but you try this stuff sometime. 
- 
        00:35:55 And they live 12
minutes away from me 
- 
        00:35:57 and I'm just going
to drive over. 
- 
        00:35:58 I don't need to put
it in my address. 
- 
        00:36:00 Would you believe
-- would you believe 
- 
        00:36:04 I got there straight no problem, 
- 
        00:36:05 but I couldn't find their
house on the street. 
- 
        00:36:10 I'm not going to far enough.
Did I go past it? 
- 
        00:36:12 Circled, went back and
forth in the same street, 
- 
        00:36:14 and finally I text her and say,
"Hey, sweetie, 
- 
        00:36:16 would you please
send me your address?" 
- 
        00:36:20 Neurologists, neuroscientists
tell us it's because 
- 
        00:36:24 we're so -- we've become
so needing these things 
- 
        00:36:29 for directions, there's parts of
our brain that have gone dead 
- 
        00:36:34 and they just don't work the
way they used to work anymore. 
- 
        00:36:37 We're being stolen from. 
- 
        00:36:40 Is this really by accident? 
- 
        00:36:42 I don't think it's by accident. 
- 
        00:36:43 I think there's actually a
sinister force behind this. 
- 
        00:36:49 The attention span that
we have is eight seconds. 
- 
        00:36:55 A goldfish is nine seconds. 
- 
        00:36:58 My family calls me the goldfish 
- 
        00:37:00 because I have a
really bad memory. 
- 
        00:37:02 We'll get into that
in just a moment. 
- 
        00:37:05 Actually, the human
attention span has dropped 
- 
        00:37:07 from 12 seconds in 2000
to 8.25 seconds in 2015. 
- 
        00:37:12 Shorter than a goldfish. 
- 
        00:37:14 Katherine Price wrote this about 
- 
        00:37:17 the formation power
of the cell phone 
- 
        00:37:20 and how to break up with
your cell phone. She says this: 
- 
        00:37:51 That's what's happened.
We've been stolen from. 
- 
        00:37:54 It's been a sinister plan
that an evil entity enacted, 
- 
        00:38:00 and we don't even
know it's happening. 
- 
        00:38:02 We're surprised by it. 
- 
        00:38:04 We wake up and
our culture is different. 
- 
        00:38:09 The enemy wants to distract. 
- 
        00:38:11 He wants to steal from us. 
- 
        00:38:13 And it happens all the time. 
- 
        00:38:14 The way he does it
is he wants to take 
- 
        00:38:15 our time and our attention. 
- 
        00:38:16 Some of us are so focused
on not losing our money 
- 
        00:38:19 in any way, shape or form. 
- 
        00:38:20 But really,
your time and your attention 
- 
        00:38:21 is way more valuable than
your money. It's your soul. 
- 
        00:38:24 Your money isn't your soul,
your time and attention, 
- 
        00:38:26 where you put your mind,
that's your soul. 
- 
        00:38:28 And so it happens
regularly and consistently 
- 
        00:38:30 for most of us every day. 
- 
        00:38:33 Wake up and wake up.
And my -- my. 
- 
        00:38:36 I used to have this old,
old school alarm 
- 
        00:38:38 that some of you
for the digital reset 
- 
        00:38:40 you want to might
want to bring out 
- 
        00:38:41 that old digital
old school alarm 
- 
        00:38:45 that would go something
like [buzzer sound]. 
- 
        00:38:48 You know, it's really awesome
to wake up to that sound. 
- 
        00:38:54 But it's also awesome that
when you turn it off, it's off. 
- 
        00:38:58 I use this phone for my alarm.
It's awesome. 
- 
        00:39:01 My wife hates this,
but I made this ring -- 
- 
        00:39:04 My ringtone for my alarm,
a John Legend song. 
- 
        00:39:07 [music: Good Morning,
John Legend] Good morning. 
- 
        00:39:11 Good morning, love. 
- 
        00:39:15 It's my favorite love song.
I waited all night long. 
- 
        00:39:22 - Good morning.
That's awesome, I love it. 
- 
        00:39:25 I reach over and squeeze her. 
- 
        00:39:27 She hates it. Makes me
like it even that much more. 
- 
        00:39:33 That's great. No problem
that John Legend has -- 
- 
        00:39:35 You can do that. 
- 
        00:39:36 You can buy that John
Legend song for your thing. 
- 
        00:39:38 It's pretty cool.
But here's the problem. 
- 
        00:39:40 That thing rings and
I get up and it's like, 
- 
        00:39:42 "Oh, did I get any text?
What's the weather?" 
- 
        00:39:47 I mean, I look at the weather
and it quickly devolves into, 
- 
        00:39:50 "Oh, let's check --
Let's check Insta." 
- 
        00:39:52 I go in Insta, I go, "Oh man,
cool four wheel driving, 
- 
        00:39:56 four wheeling things there." 
- 
        00:39:57 Oh, which leads me right
into into hunting videos. 
- 
        00:40:00 Oh it's awesome 200 point buck.
It's awesome. That's great. 
- 
        00:40:02 Which leads me into
perfectly placed ad 
- 
        00:40:06 for a manly shirt
that fits my brand. 
- 
        00:40:08 Oh, I should buy that,
I need that. 
- 
        00:40:10 Which leads me right,
right into, into a video 
- 
        00:40:15 of somebody saying
something real aggressively 
- 
        00:40:17 about how somebody who has
different thoughts than I do, 
- 
        00:40:20 how they're stupid
and they get slammed. 
- 
        00:40:22 Which leads me right into
another humorous thing 
- 
        00:40:25 where a mom takes an
egg and slams it on her, 
- 
        00:40:28 on her kid's forehead
and they freak out. 
- 
        00:40:30 Which leads me right into a
Rock and Roll Hall of Fame 
- 
        00:40:35 where, oh, what was it,
Tom Petty did we, uh -- 
- 
        00:40:39 Play my guitar, gently weeping,
steal my guitar gently -- 
- 
        00:40:43 With Prince, who comes
in and does a guitar solo. 
- 
        00:40:47 And it's so good I have
to watch it three times. 
- 
        00:40:50 By the way, just check that out. 
- 
        00:40:52 Rock and Roll Hall of Fame,
Tom Petty and Prince. 
- 
        00:40:56 You're welcome. It's unfreaking
believable. It's amazing. 
- 
        00:40:59 Anyway,
I go down this rabbit hole. 
- 
        00:41:01 That's my rabbit hole that's
specially queued up for me. 
- 
        00:41:04 And the world has
given you a cue 
- 
        00:41:07 that's going to take
you down the rabbit hole 
- 
        00:41:09 before you know
it now and go like, 
- 
        00:41:10 "Okay, now I'm going to
have my time in prayer. 
- 
        00:41:12 I'm going to interact with God. 
- 
        00:41:13 But I'm already
-- I've already had 
- 
        00:41:15 so many stupid
things filling my mind, 
- 
        00:41:18 but now I gotta, I gotta
detox from all that stuff 
- 
        00:41:22 before I can actually,
actually hear from God. 
- 
        00:41:25 We are what economists would say 
- 
        00:41:27 we are in an attention economy. 
- 
        00:41:31 Bitcoin isn't strange. 
- 
        00:41:34 What's strange is we're the
coin in the attention economy. 
- 
        00:41:38 Tristan Harris, who was a
product philosopher at Google, 
- 
        00:41:42 he says this: 
- 
        00:42:00 Jesus says, you can serve
Me or you can serve mammon, 
- 
        00:42:02 which is a personal
term for money. 
- 
        00:42:05 These devices don't
exist to serve us. 
- 
        00:42:09 They exist to serve
the profit of companies. 
- 
        00:42:13 That's what they exist for.
Period. 
- 
        00:42:15 That's what they're wired for. 
- 
        00:42:16 Which is why in Silicon Valley,
it's very well known. 
- 
        00:42:19 Again all these things
you probably know 
- 
        00:42:21 and I'm reminding
of these things. 
- 
        00:42:22 I'm putting them in a
spiritual categorization, 
- 
        00:42:26 which is why all the
people in the C-suite, 
- 
        00:42:32 in Silicon Valley,
in the tech world, 
- 
        00:42:34 they don't let their kids
use iPhones and iPads. 
- 
        00:42:38 They stick them in schools 
- 
        00:42:40 where it's not part
of their learning 
- 
        00:42:41 because they know
it rots the brain. 
- 
        00:42:43 They don't want that
happening to their kids, 
- 
        00:42:45 but us, just keep swallowing it. 
- 
        00:42:49 You want to be
one of the cool kids. 
- 
        00:42:51 We've seen the latest
thing and it's hurting us. 
- 
        00:42:54 Seth Godin says that our
phone doesn't work for us, 
- 
        00:42:59 we work for our phone. 
- 
        00:43:01 That's all the products
and algorithms 
- 
        00:43:04 that we get stolen from,
we get sucked into. 
- 
        00:43:07 The thief comes to steal,
to kill, to kill, to kill. 
- 
        00:43:13 This means to slaughter. 
- 
        00:43:16 Jesus says there is an entity
that wants to slaughter you. 
- 
        00:43:18 He doesn't just want to cause
your heart to stop beating. 
- 
        00:43:22 He wants to slaughter you.
He wants to pulverize you. 
- 
        00:43:25 He wants to ground you
down into applesauce. 
- 
        00:43:28 He wants your mind
to not work right. 
- 
        00:43:29 He wants your emotions
not to work right. 
- 
        00:43:31 He wants you to be
isolated and lonely because 
- 
        00:43:34 that's really worse than
your heart stop beating. 
- 
        00:43:36 He wants to decimate who
you and I are as human beings. 
- 
        00:43:41 He wants to decimate our life. 
- 
        00:43:43 He wants us to not
smile very much. 
- 
        00:43:45 He wants us to not laugh. 
- 
        00:43:46 He wants us to not have a hope,
or as Jesus would say, 
- 
        00:43:49 the Bible says, a peace
that passes all understanding. 
- 
        00:43:52 He wants to slaughter,
an utter bloodbath 
- 
        00:43:54 of our emotions
and spiritual sanity. 
- 
        00:43:58 This word here is the same
word that's used in Luke 15, 
- 
        00:44:01 where the prodigal son,
the wayward son, he goes away, 
- 
        00:44:04 and when he comes back
in a very repentant way. 
- 
        00:44:07 The father, representing God,
runs out to meet him. 
- 
        00:44:09 And what does he do? 
- 
        00:44:10 He takes the fattened calf 
- 
        00:44:11 that's meant for special
occasion and it says, 
- 
        00:44:14 "Kill,
slaughter the fattened calf." 
- 
        00:44:16 It's the exact same
word for slaughtering. 
- 
        00:44:19 And that's what we're
getting slaughtered, 
- 
        00:44:21 we're getting cut open,
we're getting trampled on. 
- 
        00:44:25 And we seem to not
care or we even know. 
- 
        00:44:29 And if you hear all
this today and you say, 
- 
        00:44:31 "I know all this,"
and you can't change anything 
- 
        00:44:35 about your device,
it says something about 
- 
        00:44:38 how sinister we're
being stolen from 
- 
        00:44:40 and how how things
have been crushed with us. 
- 
        00:44:45 Just some stats. 
- 
        00:44:46 Again, you've probably --
We've all probably heard this, 
- 
        00:44:49 but let's go over again. 
- 
        00:44:52 So many of these
things to research 
- 
        00:44:54 and I just had to start chopping
them down, but here's some. 
- 
        00:44:57 Adolescents who spend three
hours a day on social media 
- 
        00:45:00 had a 60% increased
risk of mental health. 
- 
        00:45:06 So says the Journal of American
Medical Association, 2019. 
- 
        00:45:08 Some of these statistics
are like a few years old. 
- 
        00:45:11 It's even worse now. 
- 
        00:45:12 Over the last few years, 
- 
        00:45:14 it's gotten worse
and worse and worse. 
- 
        00:45:15 Teen suicide rates increased
by 56% between 2007 and 2015. 
- 
        00:45:22 Teens who spend
five plus hours a day 
- 
        00:45:25 on electronic devices
were 71% more likely 
- 
        00:45:29 to have at least one
suicide risk factor. 
- 
        00:45:33 Enough about teens. Okay? 
- 
        00:45:35 They're just the most
vulnerable because 
- 
        00:45:38 when you're a teenager,
you're more prone 
- 
        00:45:40 to peer pressure
than than adults are. 
- 
        00:45:44 Your brain is less formed. 
- 
        00:45:45 I don't mean you're stupid.
I just mean it -- 
- 
        00:45:48 It's a bit harder, which is
why there's a lot of effort 
- 
        00:45:52 to come against
this and protect teens 
- 
        00:45:55 from what these
devices are doing. 
- 
        00:45:57 One of the fascinating
studies I saw was that 
- 
        00:46:00 when teens are polled and said, 
- 
        00:46:05 "Would you like your parents
to take away your device?" 
- 
        00:46:08 They almost all say, "No,
I wouldn't want that at all." 
- 
        00:46:11 When they're asked,
"Would you like all parents 
- 
        00:46:14 to take all teens devices?" They
go, "Yes, I would like that." 
- 
        00:46:19 Because then they know they're
not cut out of the social loop, 
- 
        00:46:22 they're not banned
from their social circles. 
- 
        00:46:24 They're on even footing. 
- 
        00:46:26 These things are
exasperated with teenagers, 
- 
        00:46:28 but us as adults,
or me as a 59 year old, 
- 
        00:46:30 whatever age you are, 
- 
        00:46:32 younger than a teen
or older than a teen, 
- 
        00:46:33 these are affecting all of us. 
- 
        00:46:35 Let me keep going here. 
- 
        00:46:36 Excessive screen
time is linked to 
- 
        00:46:39 a 30% increase in
obesity risk because 
- 
        00:46:43 it's sedentary lifestyle, 
- 
        00:46:44 from the
Harvard School of Public Health. 
- 
        00:46:46 61% of young adults,
that's 18 to 25, 
- 
        00:46:50 report feeling lonely 
- 
        00:46:51 due to decreased face
to face interactions. 
- 
        00:46:55 70% of couples
report that people's -- 
- 
        00:46:59 The phones interfere
with their relationships, 
- 
        00:47:02 leading to lower satisfaction. 
- 
        00:47:05 90% of Americans
use screens before bed, 
- 
        00:47:08 reducing melatonin
production by up to 50%, 
- 
        00:47:12 leading to increased
insomnia and fatigue. 
- 
        00:47:15 Yes, there's more bags
under the eyes of Americans 
- 
        00:47:18 now than ever before in history 
- 
        00:47:20 because of this device
that's stealing from us 
- 
        00:47:24 and it's slaughtering us. 
- 
        00:47:27 When you can't get
a good eight hours 
- 
        00:47:29 or whatever you get a night,
when you can't get it 
- 
        00:47:32 and this is effective. 
- 
        00:47:33 It's precious. It's everything.
It's your health. 
- 
        00:47:35 It's a it's a way to combat
depression and anxiety. 
- 
        00:47:38 It's all those things. 
- 
        00:47:39 You've got problems
with depression, anxiety, 
- 
        00:47:41 job number one is to sleep well.
Job number one. 
- 
        00:47:46 And this thing keeps
us from sleeping well. 
- 
        00:47:48 Multiple studies in
the United States, 
- 
        00:47:50 Turkey and the United
Kingdom have found that 
- 
        00:47:52 more exposure to these
things leads in negative effects 
- 
        00:47:57 in anxiety, depression,
social anxiety, low self-esteem, 
- 
        00:48:04 narcissism, insomnia,
discrete and decreased sleep. 
- 
        00:48:09 1 Peter 5:8 says this: 
- 
        00:48:27 All the things I'm
saying right now, 
- 
        00:48:29 it's roaring at us. 
- 
        00:48:32 These statistics aren't like
Christian pastor guy up here. 
- 
        00:48:35 They're atheists who
don't believe in this stuff. 
- 
        00:48:37 This isn't like
Bible thumper stuff. 
- 
        00:48:38 This is just very, very clear. 
- 
        00:48:40 Like,
this is happening right now. 
- 
        00:48:41 There is a roaring
lion called our devices 
- 
        00:48:46 that is pulverizing us,
that's slaughtering us. 
- 
        00:48:49 And most of us just don't care. 
- 
        00:48:52 We would rather have instant
access to the being of deity. 
- 
        00:48:56 And we recognize this
may not be serving me well, 
- 
        00:48:59 let alone serving my
relationship with God well. 
- 
        00:49:03 When the roaring lion
is trying to devour you, 
- 
        00:49:08 a roaring lion looking
for someone to devour, 
- 
        00:49:11 or maybe an entire
culture to devour, 
- 
        00:49:13 as 1 Peter 5:8 says,
what do we do? We resist him. 
- 
        00:49:17 And the idea of devour,
it's the idea of swallowing up. 
- 
        00:49:21 These devices are
swallowing us up. 
- 
        00:49:26 The thought of being
without our devices 
- 
        00:49:27 and losing them is,
oh my goodness. 
- 
        00:49:30 The thought of me taking
a dump without my phone, 
- 
        00:49:33 horrible. Horrible. 
- 
        00:49:34 Haven't taken a dump
without my phone 
- 
        00:49:36 in I don't know how long. 
- 
        00:49:37 I don't know,
how could I even do it anymore? 
- 
        00:49:39 I don't know if I could
even do it anymore. 
- 
        00:49:40 Not sure. Weird. Weird. 
- 
        00:49:46 When we do this fast, it's
going to start in a few weeks. 
- 
        00:49:50 It's going to start
in a few weeks. 
- 
        00:49:52 So we're just spending
a couple of weeks 
- 
        00:49:53 just like getting ready
to count the cost, 
- 
        00:49:56 figuring out if I
want to do this. 
- 
        00:49:57 And by the way, you will decide
what your reset looks like. 
- 
        00:50:01 You'll decide what
you want to cut out. 
- 
        00:50:03 You'll decide for you.
It's your decision. 
- 
        00:50:07 But why are we going to do this? 
- 
        00:50:08 We're going to do this
because here Crossroads, 
- 
        00:50:10 we do hard things.
We do hard things. 
- 
        00:50:14 We do hard things.
We do. We do hard things. 
- 
        00:50:17 We do hard things like
give above and beyond 
- 
        00:50:19 what we regularly
give for all the territory 
- 
        00:50:22 that God has given us and
and changing our lifestyles. 
- 
        00:50:25 Those of us who do hard things 
- 
        00:50:27 actually make
commitments to the 10X Push 
- 
        00:50:29 and are actually
fulfilling those things. 
- 
        00:50:31 That's a hard thing. 
- 
        00:50:32 That's why a lot of
people didn't do it. 
- 
        00:50:34 With us, we do hard things 
- 
        00:50:36 because Jesus tells
us to do hard things. 
- 
        00:50:38 This will be unbelievably hard,
unbelievably. 
- 
        00:50:41 And that's exactly
why we're going to do it. 
- 
        00:50:43 And I don't want to do it,
but I'm reminded 
- 
        00:50:47 that I'm going to do it
because I do hard things. 
- 
        00:50:50 This will be harder than
any elk hunt I've ever done. 
- 
        00:50:52 And this is one of those areas 
- 
        00:50:54 where I'm going to
do it right with you. 
- 
        00:50:55 I didn't do it before you. 
- 
        00:50:57 I haven't tried it
and checked it out 
- 
        00:50:58 and now I'm trying
to get you to do it. 
- 
        00:51:00 No, we're going
to do it in real time 
- 
        00:51:01 and it's going to be hard
and it's going to be beautiful. 
- 
        00:51:06 It's going to be life changing, 
- 
        00:51:07 if for no other reason
than sticking a finger 
- 
        00:51:10 in this thing going,
you don't own me, 
- 
        00:51:14 you will not steal from me. 
- 
        00:51:17 You will not slaughter me. 
- 
        00:51:26 Jesus says a thief
has come to steal, 
- 
        00:51:29 secretly destroy or kill,
slaughter us or destroy us. 
- 
        00:51:36 That is to perish.
That's to take away life. 
- 
        00:51:42 So many things that
we hold dear as humans 
- 
        00:51:44 are just taken away from us,
they don't exist anymore. 
- 
        00:51:48 I've been noticing
the sinister nature 
- 
        00:51:50 of my phone for quite some time,
and I decided 
- 
        00:51:52 to do some things
about it in the last year. 
- 
        00:51:55 Simple things, but just
things that I wasn't doing. 
- 
        00:51:58 Like, you know how
you want to broadcast 
- 
        00:52:00 to everybody that
you are a dork? 
- 
        00:52:02 You know how you would do that? 
- 
        00:52:14 And I can't believe I've
been a dork for years. 
- 
        00:52:16 I've been a dork for years. 
- 
        00:52:17 Like, I don't know what
-- I don't know what I'm -- 
- 
        00:52:20 Do I think that I have
to multitask by walking, 
- 
        00:52:24 and I have that many
important things to do 
- 
        00:52:25 I have to save that time? 
- 
        00:52:27 Do I feel like I'm missing out? 
- 
        00:52:29 Or here's what's
even more sinister, 
- 
        00:52:31 am I becoming afraid
of looking at strangers 
- 
        00:52:35 and smiling and saying hello? 
- 
        00:52:38 Oh my gosh, it's horrible. 
- 
        00:52:39 When this sunk in, I was like,
I'll walk and talk on the phone. 
- 
        00:52:44 But like, it's been months now,
like, no, I'm not. 
- 
        00:52:47 I'm not walking and texting. 
- 
        00:52:48 I'm not walking and looking.
I'm not, no, I'm not. 
- 
        00:52:50 No, no, no. I'm walking like,
"Hey, how are you doing?" 
- 
        00:52:54 Of course I'm good. Good. Great. 
- 
        00:52:57 It's good. It's beautiful.
Just walking. 
- 
        00:52:59 Hey. Hey. 
- 
        00:53:03 Mind blowing. 
- 
        00:53:05 When's the last
time you said hello 
- 
        00:53:08 to somebody you don't
know passing by in the street? 
- 
        00:53:12 You'll see somebody
about to lose their mind 
- 
        00:53:14 when it happens, and they'll
like it at the same time. 
- 
        00:53:17 This just doesn't happen
for most of us anymore. 
- 
        00:53:21 Seth Godin,
who was an early pioneer 
- 
        00:53:25 in understanding how
technology is affecting us 
- 
        00:53:28 as human beings, says: 
- 
        00:54:17 How many of us get the phone,
the phantom buzz? 
- 
        00:54:22 You know, you feel like our
muscles twitch. You know? 
- 
        00:54:25 Like, oh, no, no, I don't know.
Like, right? 
- 
        00:54:30 You guys get it.
It's like you feel the twitch 
- 
        00:54:33 because you have it so often, 
- 
        00:54:34 and you're just
paranoid of missing it. 
- 
        00:54:36 And you find your phone. 
- 
        00:54:38 Weird, really, really
weird and really unhealthy. 
- 
        00:54:45 The thief comes to steal,
kill and destroy 
- 
        00:54:50 a flourishing life. 
- 
        00:54:52 I've come that
they might have life 
- 
        00:54:55 and have it to the full. 
- 
        00:54:56 That's another translation. 
- 
        00:55:03 When I started doing
student ministry in the '80s, 
- 
        00:55:09 I would interact with people
who were a bit older than me 
- 
        00:55:12 and had ministries that
were more fully developed 
- 
        00:55:16 and reached a lot,
a lot, a lot, a lot, 
- 
        00:55:18 a lot more kids than I was
reaching for whatever reason. 
- 
        00:55:21 And I talked to them about,
you know, 
- 
        00:55:23 what was their secret?
What was I doing wrong? 
- 
        00:55:25 What were they doing? 
- 
        00:55:27 And and I heard regularly,
they said, 
- 
        00:55:29 "Brian, you may not be
doing anything wrong, 
- 
        00:55:31 but here's the thing." 
- 
        00:55:32 Like when they said
in the '70s and the '60s, 
- 
        00:55:36 the reason why our
student ministries could be 
- 
        00:55:38 really,
really big is that there wasn't 
- 
        00:55:40 anything else
going on in culture. 
- 
        00:55:44 So you could play football,
you could be a cheerleader, 
- 
        00:55:47 you could be in the band,
maybe chess club. That was it. 
- 
        00:55:51 There wasn't extracurricular
stuff that was happening. 
- 
        00:55:55 There wasn't stuff going
on on Sunday mornings. 
- 
        00:55:57 Now, of course we have youth
leagues and all that stuff. 
- 
        00:56:00 An atheist who was
a coach in the '80s 
- 
        00:56:03 didn't want to work on
Sunday morning either. 
- 
        00:56:06 But now we all do.
It's all it's just sad. 
- 
        00:56:08 So the reason our
ministries were so big 
- 
        00:56:10 was because kids didn't
have anything else to do. 
- 
        00:56:12 There was nothing
competing for their attention. 
- 
        00:56:14 They were like, "Oh,
something for me to go do? 
- 
        00:56:17 Wow. Something I could
go hang out with people? 
- 
        00:56:19 Got nothing better else,"
and would go. 
- 
        00:56:21 That's what they tell me. 
- 
        00:56:22 Well,
you think about that today. 
- 
        00:56:24 If you want to see an awakening, 
- 
        00:56:25 a sweep of God's
Spirit across the nation, 
- 
        00:56:27 how might the adversary
stop that from happening, 
- 
        00:56:32 from making us so
busy that we think 
- 
        00:56:35 we don't have time to go
hear someone talk to me, 
- 
        00:56:39 and to hear music that
might uplift my heart 
- 
        00:56:42 because I don't have to
any longer go someplace 
- 
        00:56:46 where someone's
planned something. 
- 
        00:56:47 I just have to stare at
this for six hours straight 
- 
        00:56:51 and think I'm getting
something done 
- 
        00:56:52 and getting myself amused. 
- 
        00:56:54 Can you see the
sinister nature of it? 
- 
        00:56:56 It's dividing us.
It's separating us. 
- 
        00:57:00 It's keeping us from God. 
- 
        00:57:03 So here's what
we're going to do, 
- 
        00:57:06 what I'm encouraging you to do. 
- 
        00:57:07 Three things. Number one,
make your smartphone dumb. 
- 
        00:57:12 Eliminate apps for 40 days 
- 
        00:57:17 because it's going to be Lent. 
- 
        00:57:19 Lent is a season that
Christians historically 
- 
        00:57:21 from all over the globe
have said, "For 40 days, 
- 
        00:57:26 I'm going to not
do with something. 
- 
        00:57:28 I'm going to do
without something, 
- 
        00:57:30 because I want to take
that time and energy 
- 
        00:57:33 to think about God and
to sacrifice a little bit, 
- 
        00:57:36 because Jesus's
sacrifice for me." 
- 
        00:57:38 That's what lent is
supposed to be, not like, 
- 
        00:57:40 "I'm just going to get rid of
chocolate because I like it 
- 
        00:57:42 and I don't want
to have it anymore." 
- 
        00:57:43 It's supposed to be I'm flushing
something from my system 
- 
        00:57:48 that may be keeping me from God, 
- 
        00:57:50 and I want to spend that
energy thinking about God, 
- 
        00:57:53 talking about God. 
- 
        00:57:54 So for Lent, 40 days,
we're going to flush our system, 
- 
        00:57:58 detox our system of
certain digital things. 
- 
        00:58:01 And so you decide
on your smartphone 
- 
        00:58:04 what you want to delete
for 40 days to make it dumb. 
- 
        00:58:08 You probably want to keep
your weather app on there. 
- 
        00:58:10 You want to keep your
text message app on there. 
- 
        00:58:13 A number of things on there,
but make it dumb. 
- 
        00:58:14 Number two, eliminate other all
other screens for personal use. 
- 
        00:58:19 Like, when's the
last time you just said 
- 
        00:58:21 let's just try to get rid,
for personal use? 
- 
        00:58:23 You can't do this for work. 
- 
        00:58:25 You know, if you're a movie
critic, you got to watch movies. 
- 
        00:58:30 If you got an email
account with work, 
- 
        00:58:32 you've got to stare at a
screen to do your email at work. 
- 
        00:58:34 But you don't have to be
checking in on our email 
- 
        00:58:36 on our day off when
we're taking a dump. 
- 
        00:58:39 You don't need to do that. 
- 
        00:58:40 Number three, limit your digital
tools to apps during work hours. 
- 
        00:58:48 Another way to
look at look at is this. 
- 
        00:58:50 You can either be a tool. 
- 
        00:58:55 You can be a tool
or use this as a tool. 
- 
        00:59:00 And most of us, unless you're
doing something intentionally, 
- 
        00:59:03 we are a tool right
now for big corporations 
- 
        00:59:07 and big tech and advertising
execs who are owning us, 
- 
        00:59:10 and they're rewiring
our brain and dividing us 
- 
        00:59:13 and changing things
about everything. 
- 
        00:59:15 It's deep, man. Really deep. 
- 
        00:59:19 Like, even down to stuff,
like, back in the old days. 
- 
        00:59:23 Back in the old days, I used
to give talks to young people 
- 
        00:59:26 at Crossroads who
weren't married saying, 
- 
        00:59:28 "Don't have sex
until you get married." 
- 
        00:59:30 I don't have to give
those talks anymore 
- 
        00:59:32 because the statistics
are pretty clear. 
- 
        00:59:33 People aren't even
having sex anymore. 
- 
        00:59:35 Sex therapists
would tell you that 
- 
        00:59:37 their biggest clientele is
20 something men who, 
- 
        00:59:40 when they get with
an actual real woman, 
- 
        00:59:42 they can't get aroused because,
we can get aroused 
- 
        00:59:46 and satisfy ourselves
in the middle of a field. 
- 
        00:59:51 It's not,
it's not like go to 7-Eleven, 
- 
        00:59:52 walk out with a brown
wrapper magazine. 
- 
        00:59:55 It's not like my computer,
a desktop computer 
- 
        00:59:58 I'm worried about being busted
and being fired from work. 
- 
        01:00:00 No. I can go anywhere and
get aroused, male or female. 
- 
        01:00:06 And you think that doesn't
affect our interaction 
- 
        01:00:08 with the opposite
sex and our heart? 
- 
        01:00:10 Oh, my goodness. We're a tool.
We're tool for this. 
- 
        01:00:14 So what might you do? 
- 
        01:00:16 If it's a tool, you'd say, 
- 
        01:00:18 uh, non-work email outside of
working hours, I'm doing emails. 
- 
        01:00:20 If it's a tool, you go, "Hey,
I'm going to use it as a phone." 
- 
        01:00:23 If you are a tool, you're
going to be using social media, 
- 
        01:00:27 which doesn't get you anything. 
- 
        01:00:29 Nothing, except wasting of time. 
- 
        01:00:32 If you want to use this tool,
text. 
- 
        01:00:33 Texts keep you in touch,
quick and to the point. 
- 
        01:00:36 That's fine. News apps. 
- 
        01:00:39 I'm eliminating all
news apps for 40 days. 
- 
        01:00:41 I'm going to go 40
days without any news. 
- 
        01:00:43 And you know what? 
- 
        01:00:44 I will be just fine
and so will the world. 
- 
        01:00:46 [indiscernible] 
- 
        01:00:48 If there's something important,
someone will tell me 
- 
        01:00:50 and it'll probably
be more accurate. 
- 
        01:00:51 Every morning I get up,
I have a couple news sources 
- 
        01:00:54 I go and I devour and then
I check into during the day. 
- 
        01:00:57 I'm not helping
the world or myself. 
- 
        01:01:01 It's just my need to,
like, be in the know 
- 
        01:01:03 and fill up two minutes of time 
- 
        01:01:06 instead of maybe
praying for two minutes. 
- 
        01:01:08 When I have to have
the news all the time. 
- 
        01:01:10 No, I'm being a tool. 
- 
        01:01:12 But the calendar, it's a tool. 
- 
        01:01:13 I want my calendar right here. 
- 
        01:01:15 Games. We're a tool. 
- 
        01:01:19 Airline apps, it's a tool,
that's helpful. 
- 
        01:01:22 Web browser can be we're a tool, 
- 
        01:01:25 endlessly searching things. 
- 
        01:01:26 Using the Crossroads
app is a tool. 
- 
        01:01:28 We're going to have special
things in the Crossroads app, 
- 
        01:01:31 devotionals over those 40 days. 
- 
        01:01:33 Not only that,
I'm testing right now, 
- 
        01:01:36 an app that Crossroads
is being gifted for free 
- 
        01:01:38 for the 40 days.
It's called Aro. It is awesome. 
- 
        01:01:43 It basically gamifies
putting down your phone. 
- 
        01:01:46 Those of us who've been trying,
it's amazing. 
- 
        01:01:48 And we'll talk about
that in weeks ahead. 
- 
        01:01:50 YouTube video clips.
This one's going to hurt for me. 
- 
        01:01:53 I've never seen a
YouTube clip I didn't like. 
- 
        01:01:55 I don't know what
I'm going to do 
- 
        01:01:57 not watching car
restoration videos 
- 
        01:01:59 or people who
kill 200 point bucks 
- 
        01:02:03 with a bow and
arrow up in a tree. 
- 
        01:02:04 I don't know what I'm going
to do, but I'm going to do it. 
- 
        01:02:06 Camera. No, no, I need a camera
to take pictures of stuff. 
- 
        01:02:09 When I'm a tool, I'm endlessly
looking at Amazon shopping. 
- 
        01:02:12 How much do -- how much more
do we spend because of this? 
- 
        01:02:16 Weather? Good to know
what to do. It's a tool. 
- 
        01:02:20 Ephesians 5:14.
I'll give this to us again. 
- 
        01:02:31 Can we all just admit that
maybe we're just a little dead? 
- 
        01:02:39 Can we just see that we're not
the person we could be, right? 
- 
        01:02:46 Just forget about
culture out there. 
- 
        01:02:49 Do we not see that we just
don't have the attention span, 
- 
        01:02:52 the patience, the ability to
silent, the ability to be still? 
- 
        01:03:01 Do you like that? I don't. 
- 
        01:03:06 And I intend to do
something about it. 
- 
        01:03:08 I intend to wake up. 
- 
        01:03:10 And I want you to wake up, too. 
- 
        01:03:12 And I know if you do, it'd be
really, really thankful you did. 
- 
        01:03:17 So we got two weeks
we're going to talk about this, 
- 
        01:03:19 and then we're going to start.
All right? 
- 
        01:03:22 Let me pray. Lord,
You are so kind and patient. 
- 
        01:03:30 Your children are distracted, 
- 
        01:03:31 and yet You hang in there
with us, and You're patient. 
- 
        01:03:37 Your children are antsy
and consumed with 
- 
        01:03:42 all kinds of things that
You don't care at all about, 
- 
        01:03:45 and yet You still are faithful. 
- 
        01:03:49 God, help us to be
children who are full of life, 
- 
        01:03:53 children who laugh,
children who run, 
- 
        01:03:55 children who look
people in the face, 
- 
        01:03:57 children who have
a sense of wonder. 
- 
        01:04:00 We trust in You to do that. 
- 
        01:04:03 We commit that that's
who we want to be. Amen. 
- 
        01:06:21 - Jesus,
would You lead us back to You 
- 
        01:06:25 because I know
You have more for us, 
- 
        01:06:29 to lead us towards life. 
- 
        01:06:34 Wake us up.
Refresh us again, God. 
- 
        01:06:41 I pray this in You, Jesus. Amen. 
- 
        01:06:48 - Man, that is so good
and honestly so hard. 
- 
        01:06:51 Like, so good for me
and what I need to hear. 
- 
        01:06:53 It reminds me, actually,
of a quote that I heard 
- 
        01:06:55 that talks about how
we're distracting ourselves 
- 
        01:06:58 into spiritual oblivion. 
- 
        01:07:00 That's like way before
the internet, but that's true. 
- 
        01:07:03 Like,
the distraction is robbing us 
- 
        01:07:05 of something that we really,
really need. 
- 
        01:07:07 - It's so true, man.
I tell you, one of the things 
- 
        01:07:10 that we are super
passionate about around here 
- 
        01:07:12 is getting you and me
to grow closer with God. 
- 
        01:07:16 And you heard Brian talking
about the Crossroads app. 
- 
        01:07:19 It is a tool and
we're using that tool 
- 
        01:07:22 to go deeper spiritually. 
- 
        01:07:23 There's scripture out there. 
- 
        01:07:25 There's opportunity to
interact with our community. 
- 
        01:07:27 We just heard it,
it was going to be -- 
- 
        01:07:28 There's going to be some
devotionals on it as well 
- 
        01:07:30 that are going to get us
through the next few weeks, 
- 
        01:07:33 which is pretty amazing.
- That's right. 
- 
        01:07:34 So the message
of today isn't that 
- 
        01:07:36 you have to throw your
phone down a well. No, no. 
- 
        01:07:38 It's that it's a tool. 
- 
        01:07:39 And make sure it's a
tool that's working for you 
- 
        01:07:41 and helping you to grow
into the kind of the person, 
- 
        01:07:43 into the kind of
person you want to be, 
- 
        01:07:45 and thriving in the way that
God has intended you to thrive. 
- 
        01:07:49 Now, I want to say, like, 
- 
        01:07:50 our Crossroads
Anywhere community, 
- 
        01:07:52 you guys meet right now. 
- 
        01:07:53 You're gathering on a
screen using digital tools, 
- 
        01:07:56 and that's perfect.
That's really, really great. 
- 
        01:07:58 That's what we want to do. 
- 
        01:07:59 And if you're like me realizing,
hey, 
- 
        01:08:02 I need to recalibrate how
I spend myself digitally, 
- 
        01:08:06 you can go to
Crossroads.net/unplug 
- 
        01:08:08 for more resources. 
- 
        01:08:09 And maybe you've got, like, 
- 
        01:08:11 you don't want to
wait for the digital fast. 
- 
        01:08:13 You want to jump in right now, 
- 
        01:08:14 maybe you have
questions about faith or God. 
- 
        01:08:16 Check that out,
our group called Alpha. 
- 
        01:08:18 It's perfect for you
at Crossroads.net. 
- 
        01:08:22 We're so grateful.
Thanks for joining us. 
- 
        01:08:24 - Yeah. See you next week.