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        Life with God doesn't have to be boring.
       
    
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        You were made for adventure.
       
    
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        It can be a pulse pumping, heart pounding life of purpose.
       
    
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        Join us every weekend for 30 minutes of challenge, hope
       
    
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        and encouragement to guide you on your spiritual adventure.
       
    
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        - Hey, I'm Kyle, one of the teaching pastors at Crossroads.
       
    
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        Welcome to Crossroads Church.
       
    
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        We're in a series called The Adventurous Life,
       
    
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        where we're digging into the full, adventurous life
       
    
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        that God has designed for each of us.
       
    
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        Now, to get that adventurous life, everyone must face and overcome fear.
       
    
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        Think about this for a moment. You know this.
       
    
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        Every great movie that you love, the hero, the main character
       
    
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        must face and overcome a fear from classics like Harry Potter
       
    
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        and Star Wars, the soon to be classics
       
    
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        like Eurovision, Will Ferrell's new movie,
       
    
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        you must face and overcome a fear, and your life is no different.
       
    
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        Today, we're gonna hear from Alli Patterson about how to,
       
    
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        with God's help, face and overcome fear. Let's get started.
       
    
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        - The first time I was ever on a horse was my last semester in college.
       
    
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        I had some random credit I needed to graduate on time
       
    
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        and for whatever reason, horseback riding fulfilled that credit.
       
    
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        So I signed up for a little adventure.
       
    
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        My name is Alli Patterson,
       
    
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        I'm one of the teaching pastors here at Crossroads.
       
    
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        And I am still no horseback rider.
       
    
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        I walked into that class on the first day and I had a vision.
       
    
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        I had a vision of like a Derby style horse
       
    
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        that ate an apple out of the palm of my hand
       
    
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        and just my hair was flowing in the breeze as I galloped through the meadows.
       
    
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        And then (record screeching) I met Holly.
       
    
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        I walked into the stall and there was this huge old white, stinky horse
       
    
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        and she bit me on the shoulder five minutes after I was in her stall.
       
    
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        The instructor actually said to me,
       
    
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        "Alli, you can't let her know that you're afraid."
       
    
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        And I left thinking, I didn't even know I was going to be afraid.
       
    
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        I wanted an adventure and I ran straight into fear instead.
       
    
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        And today we're gonna ask ourselves
       
    
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        how much do we really want an adventure for our life?
       
    
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        Because if you say yes to that,
       
    
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        then you are going to run smack into fear as well.
       
    
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        And fear has one job.
       
    
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        Fear's job is actually to keep you exactly where you are today,
       
    
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        to paralyze you and keep you from moving.
       
    
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        I felt this kind of fear as I watch my kids get in the car last week.
       
    
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        They were driving off for a weekend at their grandparents house.
       
    
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        And I felt that stab of fear,
       
    
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        that need to just kind of like grab 'em and bring 'em back to me.
       
    
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        And I just kept thinking, what if something happens to them
       
    
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        or what if there's an accident?
       
    
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        What if the grandparents are too old to drive them?
       
    
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        Maybe the risk just isn't worth it.
       
    
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        If we're going to live a life of adventure,
       
    
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        we are going to need to learn to expect those words,
       
    
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        "Maybe the risk just isn't worth it."
       
    
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        Fear loves those words, but if you wanted adventurous life,
       
    
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        you're going to have to hear those and decide to take a risk
       
    
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        right through fear and move anyway.
       
    
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        You know what? Not all fears actually are worth the risk, right?
       
    
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        We're not thrill seeking.
       
    
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        We're not swimming with sharks.
       
    
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        We're not doing what my son calls the duck and roll.
       
    
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        He's like, "Mom, Mom, mom, when we get in the driveway,
       
    
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        just slow the car down and I'm going to roll out."
       
    
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        And I'm like, "Not on my health insurance you're not."
       
    
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        He calls that the duck and roll.
       
    
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        That's not the kind of risk we're talking about today.
       
    
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        Today, we want to be able to identify the risks
       
    
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        that are sitting right in front of us
       
    
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        that have the ability to bring us closer to God.
       
    
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        And we want to push through those, even in the face of fear.
       
    
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        An adventurous life always has to push through fears to keep moving forward.
       
    
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        I actually picked out an adventure for my own life.
       
    
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        This adventure was all planned out.
       
    
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        I was going to go to Proctor and Gamble
       
    
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        and I was going to learn to run a business.
       
    
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        I was going to travel the world.
       
    
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        And that was my chosen adventure
       
    
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        and I actually got a job there out of school.
       
    
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        I got a passport.
       
    
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        I saw some pieces of the world I never thought I'd see.
       
    
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        I had a clear path ahead of me that was very appealing into the future.
       
    
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        And frankly, I thought running a business was pretty cool.
       
    
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        Right about this time in my life, too, though,
       
    
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        I decided to kind of reinvestigate who is this guy named Jesus?
       
    
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        And I started to rediscover what it might mean to actually follow Him.
       
    
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        And there were these two parts of me
       
    
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        that started this tug of war on the inside.
       
    
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        One part of me wanted to be tough and shrewd and say things like,
       
    
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        "I'm going to go to L.A. for a shoot next week."
       
    
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        And the other part of me was very uncomfortable,
       
    
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        like increasingly concerned that somehow, someway
       
    
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        I was in a place that I just shouldn't be.
       
    
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        And I'm not talking about those moments that we all have,
       
    
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        like when we come home and throw our bag down and go, "I hate my job."
       
    
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        It wasn't like that.
       
    
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        Actually, I think that God calls people
       
    
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        to all kinds of different jobs
       
    
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        in all kinds of different places all over the world.
       
    
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        But me, I went to P&G, not for God.
       
    
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        I went there for money, for success, for what I thought would be adventure.
       
    
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        I started to have these thoughts that maybe I should leave.
       
    
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        And I couldn't get rid of them.
       
    
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        They just kind of plagued me and I blew them off.
       
    
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        I was all, "no way. This is exactly what I worked for,
       
    
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        and also leave for what? To where?"
       
    
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        It turns out there's a guy in the Bible, his name's Abram,
       
    
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        and he faced exactly that question.
       
    
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        God comes into his life and you can read his story in Genesis 12:1:
       
    
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        Wait, what? That's it, God? Just go, leave?
       
    
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        You're not going to give me any more information
       
    
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        on the route, the destination? Just get up and go?
       
    
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        So I read his story and I thought, "Well, that's fine
       
    
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        for some big guy that ended up being important in the Bible,
       
    
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        but probably not me."
       
    
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        Then I read through the life of Jesus
       
    
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        and people would come around Him all the time
       
    
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        interested in what kind of adventure He was on,
       
    
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        because it's obvious He was.
       
    
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        And he would just issue an invitation.
       
    
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        He would say, "Come, follow me."
       
    
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        God seems to have some sort of pattern
       
    
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        calling us into adventures where He's the guide
       
    
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        and we need to go.
       
    
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        As I took the thoughts of leaving P&G a little bit more seriously,
       
    
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        the waves of fear started to hit.
       
    
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        You can imagine what these were.
       
    
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        This is what I'd plan to do with my life.
       
    
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        First wave of fear was something like, "You don't --
       
    
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        you don't really hear anything from God.
       
    
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        He's not really trying to give you any direction."
       
    
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        And then it was kind of, "Well, what if He is?
       
    
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        It's just some hard lesson He wants to teach you.
       
    
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        It's gonna be bad, unpleasant, some big cosmic rug pull."
       
    
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        Then a whole bunch of fears about
       
    
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        what am I actually going to do with my life if I --
       
    
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        if I'm not doing this, who am I?
       
    
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        What am I going to do? I want meaningful work.
       
    
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        And actually, what about all the money I've been making?
       
    
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        Am I just gonna be some big failure?"
       
    
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        Through all the wrestling, all I kept thinking
       
    
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        was those words that God said to Abram,
       
    
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        "Leave and go where I show you."
       
    
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        And when I finally decided to do that,
       
    
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        I walked into my boss's office on the last day
       
    
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        and she asked me a question that haunted me on the way out the door.
       
    
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        She said, "Alli, do you really know what you're doing?"
       
    
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        I did not know what I was doing.
       
    
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        No is the answer to that question,
       
    
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        but God was calling me to an adventure,
       
    
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        and I needed a push through the fear
       
    
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        of leaving behind what I had planned.
       
    
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        Is there something in your life that
       
    
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        you know you should be doing right now?
       
    
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        You just feel you should move through it,
       
    
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        but you can't quite bring yourself to push through the fear
       
    
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        of giving up what you'd always planned.
       
    
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        Or maybe you're actually the adventurous type by nature.
       
    
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        You're about to run some ultra marathon in Spain next month.
       
    
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        Well, you need to deal with the question,:
       
    
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        whose adventure are you on?
       
    
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        Is it God's adventure for you or is it your own?
       
    
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        Because God's invitation to His adventure for so many of us
       
    
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        is gonna start with the words: leave and go where I show you.
       
    
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        - I remember I graduated college.
       
    
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        I'm sitting in my room and the Lord was like, "It's time to go to LA."
       
    
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        The reality of, "I have no money."
       
    
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        And I'm sitting there like, "What am I going to do?"
       
    
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        So this fear of not knowing kind of set in.
       
    
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        I pushed through the fear though, and I went.
       
    
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        Man, like I've been trying to get a job out here.
       
    
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        I was trying to chase this dream of doing music and acting and everything.
       
    
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        This is all new to me. What am I doing?
       
    
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        And so I started booking commercials and God showed me in a moment
       
    
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        like, "Hey, I know you're afraid, but I still take care of you.
       
    
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        Like, I still got you. Don't worry about it."
       
    
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        It taught me that even a yes, it's okay to still be afraid.
       
    
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        And I was able to to do movies
       
    
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        and making more money than I ever made in my life.
       
    
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        So fast forward, you know, it's like 2017 and things are good, you know.
       
    
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        Got a place to live. My career's going great, still got a job.
       
    
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        And the Lord was like, "You're going to leave."
       
    
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        "I'm going to do what? Leave. I just just got here.
       
    
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        Like, things are going good. Like, no complaints.
       
    
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        Things aren't perfect, but I'm making things work.
       
    
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        Now you telling me I'm about to go?
       
    
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        Come on now. Jesus, like we supposed to be homies.
       
    
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        We supposed to be friends, boys. Like, come on, man."
       
    
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        And that fear set in again of what am I going to do when I get there?
       
    
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        I come back to Cincinnati.
       
    
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        That fear of like of society saying what a man is
       
    
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        started setting in like I don't -- I can't provide,
       
    
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        help my family the way I want to.
       
    
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        Like what am I gonna do?
       
    
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        You know, I'm filling out applications literally every day.
       
    
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        I'm not getting a call back. I don't know why.
       
    
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        What's coming next?
       
    
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        And I want to know.
       
    
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        I remember I got a phone call from Delta Airlines
       
    
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        and it was like, "Hey, we want to bring you in for interview."
       
    
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        I was like, "Yes, please, let's do it. I need the money."
       
    
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        That was February of this year.
       
    
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        And here we are in the middle of a pandemic
       
    
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        and I'm still able to provide for myself, my family,
       
    
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        my loved ones, and pay my tithe on top of that.
       
    
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        It proved to me that just because I say yes
       
    
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        doesn't mean everything is going to go the way I want them to go.
       
    
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        Even to this day, I'm still afraid because
       
    
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        I don't know what's going to happen next
       
    
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        in the middle of this pandemic.
       
    
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        I don't know if I'm going to have a job come September.
       
    
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        But what I do know is the same God who got me through L.A.,
       
    
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        got me through this job,
       
    
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        and got me here right now is still with me.
       
    
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        And it's okay to be afraid.
       
    
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        You just can't let the fear stop you from saying yes
       
    
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        and still moving.
       
    
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        - You know, God at many times in my life called me to face fear
       
    
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        to bring me to a new place.
       
    
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        Whether it was something like facing the fear of dating
       
    
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        and asking a girl out for the first time,
       
    
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        or the fear of quitting my job and moving across the country
       
    
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        to go work at a place called Crossroads,
       
    
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        where now it's my job to help you on your adventure.
       
    
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        In fact, if you want, you can text ADVENTURE20 to 313131
       
    
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        and we'll send you inspiring and challenging texts
       
    
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        throughout the week to help you on your adventure.
       
    
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        Now, one of the adventures that God calls each of us to
       
    
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        is the adventure around money.
       
    
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        And there's a lot of fear in it, not fear of having money so much,
       
    
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        but the fear of the money leaving our wallet that moment.
       
    
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        It's one that God wants to help each of us through.
       
    
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        And the way He does it is He asks us to trust Him with our money.
       
    
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        Now that looks like giving 10% of your income to our local church.
       
    
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        If that's something you want to do
       
    
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        or something you want to know more about,
       
    
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        you go to Crossroads.net/give
       
    
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        or you can text CROSSROADS to 313131.
       
    
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        Let's hear some stories of people's adventures in our own community.
       
    
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        - I'm Melissa and I'm a nurse.
       
    
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        Taking care of others is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Faith. I volunteer at Woman's Camp.
       
    
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        Taking others to new places is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Jairus. I lead a small group.
       
    
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        Investing in others is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Melissa. I'm a college student.
       
    
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        Learning as my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Kirk. I'm a foster parent.
       
    
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        Supporting families in crisis is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Reece and I started a charity.
       
    
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        Caring for the homeless is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Regina and I'm a newlywed.
       
    
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        Building a strong marriage is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Calvin. I'm a business professional.
       
    
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        And building a career is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Margo. I volunteer in Kids' Club.
       
    
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        And teaching the future is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Thandiwe and I volunteer at Student Ministry.
       
    
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        And leading teens is my adventure.
       
    
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        - I'm Juanita and I lead GO Trips.
       
    
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        Taking faith to all the corners of the earth is my adventure.
       
    
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        - When I got pregnant with my second baby,
       
    
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        I had no idea that God, me, and fear
       
    
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        were about to have another confrontation.
       
    
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        My husband and I started a conversation about
       
    
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        whether it just might make sense practically
       
    
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        based on where we both were in our work and life at that point,
       
    
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        to maybe consider me staying home and taking care of
       
    
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        at home what would be two pretty young babies.
       
    
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        And I was game for what might work for us,
       
    
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        but to be honest, this was not on my list
       
    
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        of life adventures that I was looking forward to.
       
    
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        It actually kind of went against some of the ways
       
    
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        that I saw myself,
       
    
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        probably the most important of which was independent.
       
    
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        I was kind of used to having my own thing going on.
       
    
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        And as we started to discuss what might be best,
       
    
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        it kind of hit me that I would be more dependent than ever on Bill.
       
    
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        We would sort of be putting all the eggs in the basket
       
    
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        of our marriage for maybe the first time.
       
    
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        And did we really want to put life together
       
    
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        to intentionally and only function as a team?
       
    
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        Would I be enough for him and two small babies
       
    
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        and would he really come through for me?
       
    
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        The truth is, I was afraid of that kind of dependence.
       
    
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        I think a lot of us have been hurt
       
    
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        when we've depended on the wrong person,
       
    
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        we've invested in the wrong place,
       
    
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        we've trusted the wrong people.
       
    
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        And maybe you, like I have, have a moment in your past
       
    
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        where you can look back and think,
       
    
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        "I guess I can really only rely on what I can do for myself."
       
    
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        When I'm up on the horse,
       
    
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        dependence was actually part of my fear of doing that.
       
    
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        I would be completely dependent on the behavior
       
    
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        of this thing that I wasn't sure I could control.
       
    
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        What if he doesn't do what I say?
       
    
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        What if he kicks me in the face when I'm in the stall?
       
    
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        What if he throws me to the ground?
       
    
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        Or what if we take off running and I can't control him?
       
    
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        The adventurous life with God is actually just like this.
       
    
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        It's a life of total dependence upon a God that we can't control.
       
    
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        Sometimes I know I think it feels better to opt
       
    
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        for what's manageable, what I can compartmentalize,
       
    
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        what I can keep my hands around.
       
    
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        But I'm telling you today, your adventure
       
    
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        will only be as big as you let your God be.
       
    
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        And for far too many of us, our picture of God is way too small.
       
    
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        As a matter of fact, I know what size it is.
       
    
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        The size of adventure that most of us are living
       
    
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        is about the size of what we think we can handle.
       
    
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        There was a guy named Moses in the Bible
       
    
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        who God came and invited into a huge adventure.
       
    
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        God shows up in a Moses's life, and he says, "Guess what?
       
    
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        I have a big adventure for you.
       
    
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        I want you to be my guy that goes into Egypt,
       
    
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        talks to Pharaoh,
       
    
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        and gets him to let all of my people out of slavery,
       
    
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        the entire nation.
       
    
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        We're just gonna go get them out of slavery."
       
    
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        And Moses, right then, he needed a bigger picture of God too.
       
    
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        Listen to what he says to God in Exodus 3
       
    
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        after this big invitation to this amazing adventure:
       
    
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        Five little words: I will be with you.
       
    
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        Moses was all, "Really, God? How's this going to work?
       
    
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        Are you -- Are you sure it's me?"
       
    
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        And God says, "I'll tell you what. Here's our big plan.
       
    
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        Ready for the strategy? I'm going with you."
       
    
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        When I first started to stay home with the kids
       
    
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        I told God the same thing.
       
    
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        I said, "It doesn't seem like this is going to work very well.
       
    
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        Are you sure you meant me?"
       
    
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        I really did think He was behind this decision.
       
    
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        I actually thought He was in favor of me doing this in my life.
       
    
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        And I couldn't figure out why, at least until the moment
       
    
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        I heard it come out of my very own mouth.
       
    
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        Do you ever do the thing where you go, "Yeah, I heard it.
       
    
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        I heard it"?
       
    
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        I did that the day that I grabbed Bill by the shoulders.
       
    
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        And we'd been struggling to put a life together
       
    
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        that we were both kind of happy and satisfied with.
       
    
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        And I grabbed his shoulders and I said to him,
       
    
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        "Listen to me.
       
    
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        I know that I've been sending you all kinds of messages
       
    
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        in big and small ways for years, that I've got this,
       
    
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        that I can do it by myself.
       
    
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        But the truth is, I can't. I need you."
       
    
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        Bingo.
       
    
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        It was the biggest thing that God did for me
       
    
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        in the seven years that I stayed home with my kids.
       
    
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        And just like Bill and I had to learn what it meant
       
    
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        to put life together as a team, to go on an adventure
       
    
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        where we could only operate dependent on one another,
       
    
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        that's exactly the kind of relationship
       
    
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        that God invites you and me into.
       
    
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        He wants us to operate that exact same way with Him.
       
    
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        So where are you holding out?
       
    
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        Where are you refusing to rely on God?
       
    
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        Or maybe you're refusing to rely on others.
       
    
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        Whatever it -- wherever that is in your life,
       
    
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        that is the place that will limit the size of your adventure.
       
    
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        - How are you?
       
    
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        It's nice to meet you.
       
    
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        - Am I allowed to touch her?
       
    
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        - You can touch her everywhere.
       
    
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        - OK. Do I go in front of her, behind her?
       
    
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        - You can come around right to the front.
       
    
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        - Yeah.
       
    
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        - Perfect. And come right around the back of the horse
       
    
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        as you're touching her.
       
    
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        Yep, keep touching her. There you go.
       
    
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        - I'm glad you're confident.
       
    
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        - Do you feel good?
       
    
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        - I don't feel bad.
       
    
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        - Paula says she's kind of a small horse,
       
    
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        but she still seems big to me.
       
    
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        I'm nervous I'm going to hurt her.
       
    
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        - Oh, no, you're not. I promise you.
       
    
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        Nicely done.
       
    
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        - Fear always wants to tell us that we need to see
       
    
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        all the pieces laid out before us of our adventure
       
    
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        before we start to move.
       
    
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        Man, as a planner -- Whoa, whoa, whoa, Candy.
       
    
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        Let's go, walk on.
       
    
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        As a planner, I would love to know
       
    
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        where this horse is even going right now.
       
    
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        Keep going. Let's go.
       
    
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        But God just doesn't work like that.
       
    
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        He doesn't lay out all the pieces of our adventure
       
    
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        before we even take the first step.
       
    
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        The adventurous life -- Whoa, Candy --
       
    
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        actually starts to unfold as we move.
       
    
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        When I'm up on this horse I remember from school
       
    
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        when I took horseback riding, I remember
       
    
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        I actually feel better on the horse.
       
    
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        You couldn't tell it now, but I can --
       
    
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        I can feel her. I can see her.
       
    
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        I can talk to her in a new way.
       
    
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        And I can actually gently guide her with the easiest commands.
       
    
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        Unlike in the stall, where if I tried to move this horse,
       
    
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        she would go absolutely nowhere.
       
    
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        But up here I can ask her to stop with a little whoa
       
    
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        and then I can ask her to go again.
       
    
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        Let's walk on.
       
    
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        She can hear me and see me as we move together.
       
    
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        You know, a couple years ago --
       
    
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        Let's walk a little slower, babe.
       
    
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        A couple years ago, I was debating a decision in my own life.
       
    
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        Whoa.
       
    
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        And I didn't know which way to go because I couldn't see the end.
       
    
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        I wanted the end laid out before me.
       
    
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        I wanted to know which path should I walk down and why,
       
    
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        and have all the pieces arranged.
       
    
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        And it was really about going back to school.
       
    
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        I wanted to go back because I wanted to teach
       
    
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        as well as I possibly could.
       
    
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        And I kind of thought, I'm going to need some help.
       
    
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        I'm going to need some more education for this.
       
    
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        And when I applied to seminary, I realized
       
    
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        I need the recommendation of my senior pastor.
       
    
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        So I made a -- I made an appointment.
       
    
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        I went to see Brian.
       
    
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        And we've known each other for years,
       
    
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        so I just talked to him about some of my uncertainty,
       
    
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        thinking I don't even know if I want to get a degree,
       
    
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        and if so, which one and all of that.
       
    
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        And he said, "Yes, I'm happy to write your recommendation
       
    
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        if you decide you want to do it."
       
    
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        And I got up to leave his office
       
    
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        and he kind of called out after me.
       
    
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        He said to me, "Hey, Al."
       
    
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        And I turned around and he said, "Don't forget,
       
    
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        it's always easier for God to steer a moving ship."
       
    
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        And I walked out thinking, "Huh?
       
    
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        It's always easier for God to steer a moving ship."
       
    
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        Those words gave me the freedom that I needed
       
    
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        to actually make a move without knowing the end.
       
    
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        It didn't mean something was wrong.
       
    
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        It just meant that God was only going to take me the first step
       
    
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        until I moved with Him.
       
    
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        Every time we see the real faith at work in the Bible,
       
    
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        that's always what happens.
       
    
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        God is not going to lay out the steps.
       
    
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        Our adventure is going to unfold as we move.
       
    
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        Let's go.
       
    
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        The adventurists life is really a life of real faith.
       
    
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        And faith is just the willingness to risk something real
       
    
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        on God himself, on the plans of God,
       
    
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        on the character of God, on the reality of God,
       
    
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        on His ability to care for you, on His desire to love you.
       
    
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        I want to encourage you today
       
    
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        that if you don't have any history with God,
       
    
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        you don't feel like you know Him,
       
    
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        you don't feel like you have a relationship with Him,
       
    
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        that the first move of faith is always the hardest.
       
    
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        And as we move, we meet a God who not only has good plans for us,
       
    
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        He has an adventure that He wants to share.
       
    
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        I've met a lot of people who say they have faith,
       
    
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        but have never put anything on the line with God.
       
    
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        They've never actually risked a job or relationship,
       
    
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        any of their money or anything.
       
    
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        And that is not real faith.
       
    
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        You want to know how to find the adventure that God has for you?
       
    
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        I can tell you how.
       
    
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        You look at the risk in front of you right now
       
    
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        and push through the fear, risking something
       
    
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        on the reality of a God
       
    
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        who's going to go on that adventure with you.
       
    
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        So what is it?
       
    
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        What is the risk that you're thinking of right now,
       
    
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        the one you know would lead to the first step
       
    
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        on an adventure for you,
       
    
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        the one you wish God would tell you more about,
       
    
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        the one you'd love to have the plan all laid out for.
       
    
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        And do you know? Can you see what the fear is
       
    
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        that's trying to paralyze you and hold you
       
    
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        exactly where you are today?
       
    
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        You don't have to get it right. You really don't.
       
    
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        You don't have to see the end.
       
    
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        All you have to do is know that God thinks
       
    
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        it's a lot easier to steer a moving ship.
       
    
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        I want you to remember 2 Corinthians 5:7, maybe even memorize it.
       
    
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        It says:
       
    
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        That doesn't mean we check our brains at the door
       
    
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        or we don't want counsel or wisdom to go with us.
       
    
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        It just means that we're not afraid to take a step
       
    
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        not knowing the end, because we have a God who is going with us,
       
    
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        who wants a better adventure for our life
       
    
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        than anything we could ask or imagine for ourselves.
       
    
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        Let's go.
       
    
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        - One of the best ways to tell God
       
    
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        that you want to be in motion towards Him
       
    
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        is to simply talk to Him.
       
    
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        And you can do that through songs
       
    
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        like the one we're about to sing right now.
       
    
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        This is words that God said to a guy named Joshua
       
    
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        thousands of years ago, but they're the same ones
       
    
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        He says to you and I right now.
       
    
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        He says, "Be strong, take courage.
       
    
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        I'm on the adventure with you."
       
    
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        Let's sing these words together right now.
       
    
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        - Don't let your adventure stop here.
       
    
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        If you want, remember you can text ADVENTURE20 to 313131
       
    
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        to receive encouraging and challenging texts throughout the week.
       
    
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        Or if you're ready for more than that, you can get a guide,
       
    
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        someone to help you on your journey, answer questions,
       
    
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        help you take your next step, and even pray for you.
       
    
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        If that's something you're interested, you can go to
       
    
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        Crossroads.net/adventure and chat with us.
       
    
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        Or if this message has impacted you
       
    
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        and you want to help other people experienced that,
       
    
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        you can give the support us and support this message,
       
    
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        you can go to Crossroads.net/give to do that.
       
    
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00:36:13
        Next week are going to continue in our series,
       
    
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        The Adventurous Life.
       
    
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        Brian's going to be talking to us about
       
    
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        how adventurous people change the world literally
       
    
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        and not just talk about it, but actually give each of us
       
    
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        an opportunity to do exactly that next week.
       
    
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        You're not going to want to miss it.
       
    
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        Lastly, you can stay tuned right now
       
    
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        to hear about how you can connect to people around you.
       
    
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        - Crossroads has communities all across the country
       
    
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        and I want to help you get connected.
       
    
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        I'm Greg Aukerman and I lead the online church team
       
    
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        whose job is to do exactly that.
       
    
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        I'd love to help you find your people,
       
    
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        get support and prayer
       
    
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        and take your next step on your spiritual adventure.
       
    
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        Connect with us at Crossroads.net/onlinecommunity.