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        - Hey, welcome to
Crossroads, I'm Kyle.
       
    
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        - And I'm Hannah.
       
    
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        - We're here to
guide and equip you
       
    
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        for the adventurous
life that God has for you.
       
    
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        Today we're continuing our
dive into the book of Daniel
       
    
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        and my friend Hannah
right here is going to talk
       
    
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        about the key to
dealing with bullies.
       
    
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        - That's right, I sure am.
       
    
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        And listen, maybe
bullies make you feel
       
    
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        the way that Elmo
feels about Rocco.
       
    
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        Regardless, we're
going to get to the bottom
       
    
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        of how to deal with
bullies and what God wants
       
    
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        us to take away from the
process starting right now.
       
    
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        - Why? Why doesn't? Why
doesn't Elmo like Rocco?
       
    
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        - I'll explain that
to you later.
       
    
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        - Like, I saw it,
I didn't understand.
       
    
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        - It's a long story.
- Okay.
       
    
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        - The book of Daniel is
a story of a faithful man
       
    
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        and the unmatched power of God.
       
    
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        After being taken captive
from their home city,
       
    
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        Jerusalem, to an unknown
land called Babylon,
       
    
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        four very special
royal Israelites
       
    
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        were chosen to serve the king.
       
    
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        Daniel, Hananiah,
Mishael and Azariah.
       
    
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        Today we focus on
Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah,
       
    
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        better known as Shadrach,
Meshach and Abednego,
       
    
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        or the three Hebrew boys.
       
    
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        The King of Babylon,
Nebuchadnezzar, loved himself
       
    
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        so much that he
put a huge statue
       
    
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        to remind people of
his imperial power.
       
    
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        And he wanted
everyone to worship it
       
    
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        whenever they heard
the special music. Everyone.
       
    
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        But the Hebrew boys,
men, Boyz II Men,
       
    
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        they were not about it.
       
    
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        Today we explore their story
       
    
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        and what it means for our life.
       
    
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        - Don't you hate bullies?
       
    
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        I've never met anyone
who actually likes them.
       
    
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        Well, see, I found the
key to standing up to them.
       
    
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        Hey, I'm Hannah Driskill,
       
    
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        and today we're going
to talk about bullies.
       
    
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        And before you check out, I
promise you, you have one.
       
    
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        Now, maybe you
don't call it a bully
       
    
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        because you know
you're like an adult,
       
    
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        but I promise you
that you have one.
       
    
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        And maybe it's not the
kid in the hallway anymore
       
    
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        who steals your lunch money,
       
    
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        but it could be
the person at work
       
    
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        who takes credit for
your ideas over and over,
       
    
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        even after you've
talked to them.
       
    
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        It's the person who won't
listen to your feelings
       
    
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        and your side of the story,
       
    
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        even after you've asked them to
       
    
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        and you told them
how it makes you feel.
       
    
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        It's Jan from Finance
who steals your lunch,
       
    
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        even when you label it
over and over. Thanks, Jan.
       
    
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        Listen, I can talk
about bullies because,
       
    
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        well, one, I was a
bully, believe it or not.
       
    
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        And two, I missed my
opportunity to stop one.
       
    
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        And finally, I've got
about four bullies
       
    
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        that I'm dealing with
right now as I talk to you.
       
    
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        See, about the year 2000,
I was a bully. Yep, me.
       
    
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        Now I was only
about four years old,
       
    
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        but I still remember it.
       
    
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        I bullied this kid
named Imani Newsome.
       
    
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        And I'll never forget it.
       
    
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        I'll never forget her
because I used to tease her
       
    
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        every single day,
maybe about her clothes,
       
    
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        about her hair, but
mostly about the fact
       
    
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        that she was the
quietest kid in the class.
       
    
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        And I'm ashamed to say it,
       
    
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        but I even used to
pinch her during nap time
       
    
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        as a way to threaten
her from snitching on me
       
    
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        to our teacher, Miss Smith.
       
    
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        Even though I was
a small four year old,
       
    
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        I was a big bully
because I wanted Imani
       
    
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        to feel worse than me
for being who she was.
       
    
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        Then, when I was in
high school, I actually
       
    
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        missed my shot to
stand up to a bully.
       
    
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        See, I had given
up my bullying days.
       
    
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        I had changed my ways.
       
    
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        And there was this
kid named Gameiro.
       
    
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        Now he was a nice guy,
but he was pretty eccentric.
       
    
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        He walk differently,
he talk differently.
       
    
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        But most of all, he
dressed differently.
       
    
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        And he was an oddball, for sure.
       
    
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        And he was bullied for
it, sometimes violently.
       
    
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        Now, while I was never
an active bully to Gameiro,
       
    
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        like I said, I gave
up my bullying ways.
       
    
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        I also never stopped it.
       
    
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        And there was this one
specific time that I remember
       
    
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        God was nudging
me and nudging me
       
    
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        clearly to stand up for Him
and to stop the bullying,
       
    
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        and I choked.
I simply couldn't do it.
       
    
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        Instead of standing up,
       
    
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        I actually cracked
under the pressure,
       
    
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        caring more about what
my associates thought of me
       
    
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        than being obedient to God.
       
    
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        You know, I think
standing up to bullies
       
    
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        or simply not being a bully
       
    
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        might sound easier
than it actually is.
       
    
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        I think we all would like to be
       
    
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        people who stand up to bullies.
       
    
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        We all would like to be
people who fight injustices.
       
    
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        But I think at the same
time, in the back of our minds,
       
    
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        we fear that if the time
came to actually do it,
       
    
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        we'd miss our shot.
       
    
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        But if you want to be
a courageous person,
       
    
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        a person of integrity,
       
    
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        a person who is obedient
to God even when it's hard,
       
    
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        then you're going to have
to stand up to some bullies.
       
    
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        And I think today's
story will give you and I
       
    
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        the key that we need to stand up
       
    
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        to our biggest,
scariest bullies.
       
    
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        So let me set the stage for you.
       
    
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        We've been talking
about the book of Daniel
       
    
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        and looking at his life
       
    
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        and exploring what
it means for our lives.
       
    
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        Now what's happened
to date is that this guy
       
    
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        named King Nebuchadnezzar
had plundered
       
    
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        and conquered the
city of Jerusalem.
       
    
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        This is also the city where
God's chosen people,
       
    
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        the Jews, the Israelites lived.
       
    
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        And when he conquered
it, he took a lot of stuff.
       
    
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        Most of it was material,
but he also took some people
       
    
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        that he considered to
be the cream of the crop,
       
    
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        the brightest, the smartest,
and the most handsome.
       
    
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        And he chose them to come
and serve him in his palace.
       
    
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        Now these folks
names were Daniel
       
    
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        and some of his friends
Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah,
       
    
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        better known by their
Babylonian given names
       
    
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        Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego.
       
    
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        But if you're like me,
       
    
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        you grew up calling him a
bad Negro. Same difference.
       
    
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        See, they were
chosen to serve the king
       
    
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        who believe nothing
like they believed.
       
    
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        And today we're going to
learn how they stay faithful,
       
    
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        even in the midst of that.
       
    
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        So you might imagine
King Nebuchadnezzer,
       
    
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        this big conqueror.
Yep, he's a big deal.
       
    
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        And you know what?
       
    
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        He actually has
the proof to back up
       
    
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        that he is a big deal,
       
    
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        but he wants everyone
around him to know it.
       
    
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        So he sets up this 90 foot
high and this 9 foot wide
       
    
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        gold statue to flex
his imperial power.
       
    
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        Daniel 3 says:
       
    
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        You see, King Nebuchadnezzar
possessed a quality
       
    
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        that is a clear indicator
that he was a bully.
       
    
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        He had insecurity.
       
    
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        No, not the show with
Issa Rae, insecurity.
       
    
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        See this Scripture is saying
that King Nebuchadnezzar
       
    
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        was so convinced of
his power that not only
       
    
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        did he put up this
large gold image,
       
    
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        but he invited everybody
who was worth anything
       
    
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        to come and see it.
       
    
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        He essentially is
hosting the equivalent
       
    
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        of the Babylonian Met Gala,
       
    
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        the Who's Who Party of the Year.
       
    
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        And even though
it seems like it,
       
    
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        he doesn't just
put this statue up
       
    
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        so people can come party
and tell them how great he is,
       
    
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        although they do that.
       
    
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        He puts up the statue
because he is insecure.
       
    
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        See just one chapter
before in Daniel 2,
       
    
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        King Nebuchadnezzar
had a very scary dream
       
    
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        that Daniel helped
interpret for him.
       
    
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        The gist of the dream is simple:
       
    
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        it's that his kingdom
was not as powerful
       
    
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        as he thought it was, and
there was a time stamp on it.
       
    
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        In the dream, there was
a statue made of gold,
       
    
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        silver, bronze, iron and clay.
       
    
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        And when Daniel
interpreted the dream,
       
    
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        he plainly shared with
the king that in the dream,
       
    
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        the gold represented
himself, King Nebuchadnezzar.
       
    
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        But the other
materials represented
       
    
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        all the other kingdoms
that would come after him.
       
    
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        Until finally, a kingdom
would come that would be
       
    
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        so powerful that it will
crush all the other materials
       
    
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        and thus all the other
kingdoms, including him.
       
    
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        And so like any big bully,
       
    
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        he really can't
even fathom this.
       
    
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        He can't even think
about the thought of losing
       
    
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        and putting up this
statue is, by the way,
       
    
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        made of all gold,
is his way of saying,
       
    
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        "My reign, my authority,
that is never going to end."
       
    
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        His statue is
deliberately contradicting
       
    
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        God's declared plan.
       
    
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        He's saying, "No,
brah. No, no, no, no, no.
       
    
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        My kingdom? That's
never going to stop.
       
    
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        No kingdoms are coming after me.
       
    
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        And in fact, that's scary
dream, that never happened."
       
    
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        So he built a statue
for the same reason.
       
    
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        I bullied Imani Newsome.
       
    
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        See, I was the second
youngest child of seven
       
    
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        at the time, and I
had nobody to boss,
       
    
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        only the opportunity
to be bossed,
       
    
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        until I met Imani Newsome
and I knew I could boss her.
       
    
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        See, I was insecure
       
    
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        about being the
littlest in my own home.
       
    
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        So I chose to make
someone else feel small.
       
    
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        And I couldn't just be insecure.
       
    
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        I had to do something about it.
       
    
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        So King Nebuchadnezzar,
he does something about it.
       
    
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        He declares this deadly decree.
       
    
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        And he makes sure
that all Babylon's elite
       
    
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        and all the important
people are there to see it.
       
    
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        See, he actually
doesn't care about them
       
    
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        just seeing his
really beautiful statue.
       
    
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        He wants to test
their allegiance to him.
       
    
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        He wants them, and actually
everybody, to worship it
       
    
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        when they hear music.
       
    
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        In verse six it says:
       
    
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        King Nebuchadnezzar was saying,
       
    
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        "You will appease my
insecurities and worship me.
       
    
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        And by the way, if you don't,
       
    
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        I've got this big, deadly plan
       
    
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        to bully you into doing it."
       
    
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        He's giving everybody a
very clear choice: bow or die?
       
    
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        And here's where our main
characters enter the story.
       
    
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        Shadrach, Meshach and
Abednego won't be bullied,
       
    
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        and they teach us something
       
    
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        about standing up
to our own bullies.
       
    
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        For the most part,
King Nebuchadnezzar
       
    
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        is getting exactly
what he wants.
       
    
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        His insecurities
are laid to rest
       
    
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        as people all around
him are hearing the music,
       
    
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        and when they hear it,
       
    
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        they literally stop
whatever they're doing
       
    
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        and bow to worship
this gold image.
       
    
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        So if you're frying chicken
or cutting hair, guess what?
       
    
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        The chicken doesn't
get finished being fried
       
    
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        and your hair is just
not getting cut that day
       
    
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        because it's time to bow.
       
    
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        Now, if you know the story,
then you know what's coming.
       
    
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        And if you don't know the
story, I'm going to tell you.
       
    
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        The three Hebrew
boys, as some people call
       
    
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        Shadrach, Meshach and
Abednego, they simply don't bow.
       
    
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        And actually they
don't make a show of it.
       
    
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        See, they aren't looking to
make some giant statement.
       
    
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        They aren't interested in
holding a press conference
       
    
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        or posting it on Tik
Tok or Instagram.
       
    
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        They actually aren't
looking to be seen at all.
       
    
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        They are simply
following the ways
       
    
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        of their Jewish culture.
       
    
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        I think today, when
we see people
       
    
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        standing up to bullies,
       
    
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        standing up for things
that they believe are right,
       
    
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        they do it with this
intention to craft
       
    
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        just the right message
       
    
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        so it'll piss just the right
amount of people off
       
    
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        to create just enough
outrage that will have people
       
    
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        making a big following
so that everyone
       
    
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        who disagrees with
them will feel awful.
       
    
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        See, but Shadrack,
Meshack and Abednego,
       
    
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        they have a different approach.
       
    
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        Their resistance to the bully
       
    
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        isn't actually about
rallying others up
       
    
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        and getting as many
people as they can
       
    
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        to be on their bandwagon
and agree with them
       
    
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        and make others feel terrible.
       
    
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        These three guys are
doing it just for themselves,
       
    
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        not for the sake
of other people,
       
    
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        and not for the
sake of being seen.
       
    
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00:12:05
        They're doing it because
they know it's right.
       
    
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00:12:09
        They're committed to
serving the true God,
       
    
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        and they show it by not bowing.
       
    
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        You see, in fact,
their acts would have
       
    
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        probably went entirely unnoticed
       
    
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00:12:18
        if it wasn't for their haters.
       
    
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00:12:21
        The Bible tells us that there
were certain Chaldeans,
       
    
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        which basically just
means like a magician
       
    
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        or a powerful
leader at the time,
       
    
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        who maliciously accused
Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego.
       
    
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00:12:32
        And they went and
they snitched to the king.
       
    
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        They said, "Oh,
king, live forever.
       
    
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00:12:37
        You, oh king, have made
a decree that every man
       
    
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00:12:40
        who hears every kind
of music should fall down
       
    
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        and worship the golden image.
       
    
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00:12:45
        There are certain Jews
whom you've appointed,
       
    
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        by the way, over the affairs
of the province of Babylon:
       
    
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        Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego.
       
    
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        These men, oh king, they
pay no attention to you.
       
    
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        They don't serve your gods
       
    
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        or worship the golden
image that you've set up."
       
    
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        And I see the haters just
came out of the woodwork.
       
    
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00:13:05
        And they didn't just come,
       
    
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        they actually had
a malicious motive.
       
    
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00:13:08
        They were looking
for a promotion
       
    
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        and some political gain.
       
    
      - 
        
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        They're hating on the position
       
    
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        of Shadrach, Meschach,
and Abednego.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:15
        And they're looking
actually to hopefully
       
    
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00:13:17
        get them killed, likely so
they can take their position.
       
    
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00:13:21
        See, I bet some of us can relate
       
    
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00:13:23
        to Shadrach, Meschach,
and Abednego in this moment,
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:26
        because here we are
minding our business,
       
    
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00:13:28
        doing our thing
and haters just come
       
    
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00:13:31
        trying to mess with things.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:33
        So after the haters
have snitched,
       
    
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        this insecure king is furious
and he demands to see
       
    
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        the three Hebrew boys
and he threatens their life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:42
        He reminds them
that if you don't bow,
       
    
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00:13:45
        you will be thrown into
an unforgiving flame.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:48
        He's saying, bow or die.
       
    
      - 
        
00:13:52
        Now the king in his
pride, he asked them,
       
    
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00:13:54
        "Who is the God who will
deliver you out of my hands?"
       
    
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        In that moment,
they don't shake.
       
    
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        They don't buckle.
They don't get fearful.
       
    
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00:14:02
        They look directly in
the bully's, I imagine,
       
    
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        and they say to him:
       
    
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00:14:32
        Now, King Nebuchadnezzar
wasn't mad before this moment,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:35
        he is livid right now
       
    
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00:14:37
        because these guys are
literally embarrassing him.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:40
        They're not just denouncing
his power and saying,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:43
        "I don't care what you
do, we're not bowing."
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:45
        They're doing it in
front of everyone,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:47
        the whole Met Gala
people is right there
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:50
        to watch him denounce the power,
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:52
        and they're saying, "Whatcha
gonna to do about it?"
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:55
        He's got something to prove.
       
    
      - 
        
00:14:56
        Now the three Hebrew boys,
their response, it's so bold.
       
    
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00:15:00
        It is. It's bold.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:02
        But the kicker about that moment
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:04
        is not just the bold
response, it's that
       
    
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00:15:07
        it wasn't the moment
that the Hebrew boys
       
    
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00:15:09
        had decided that they
will be committed to God
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:12
        and not bow to the king.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:14
        See, they had to
decide that they believed
       
    
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00:15:17
        in God's power long
before the moment came,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:20
        or they would have easily
bowed in the moment.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:23
        I want to set this up for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:24
        You've got a scary king
right here. I mean, scary.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:28
        Your boss, in fact, who
can chop your head off
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:32
        and then you've got
a fire that you can see
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:34
        and smell, and it's real.
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:37
        See, in our own lives when
we're standing between
       
    
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00:15:40
        being committed to
God and bowing to
       
    
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00:15:43
        whatever is the cultural
flavor of the month
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:45
        or whatever is the pressure
that we're currently facing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:49
        if we've not already
decided that we will be
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:52
        a believer of God and His power,
       
    
      - 
        
00:15:54
        more than the world's
power, we're going to bow.
       
    
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00:16:00
        I know we will
probably all like to think,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:02
        "Oh, my gosh, like,
no, absolutely not,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:04
        that's not going to be me.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:05
        I would totally
stand up for God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:07
        I'm all for Jesus. He's
like, and I love him."
       
    
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00:16:10
        Let me tell you, like I said,
       
    
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00:16:11
        when you're standing
between that furious king
       
    
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00:16:15
        and that very visible
blazing furnace,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:18
        it's real easy to forget
       
    
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00:16:20
        that you want to stand
up for an invisible God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:24
        See, I told you the story
about how I had missed my shot
       
    
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00:16:27
        to stand up to a
bully in high school
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:30
        because when I
was in the hot seat,
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:32
        the pressure was
actually too much
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:34
        to make the decision
in that moment.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:37
        The picture that I'm
trying to paint here
       
    
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        is that Shadrach,
Meshach and Abednego,
       
    
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00:16:41
        they were not superhuman
with super faith.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:44
        They simply had made
their minds up that
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:46
        they were going to serve
God no matter what, and
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:48
        they made it up long before
they were faced with the fire.
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:53
        Their story teaches us that
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:54
        if we don't prepare
ahead of time
       
    
      - 
        
00:16:57
        to stand up to the
bully, we will bow.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:03
        - Hey, quick
interruption to tell you
       
    
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00:17:04
        giving is a critical
spiritual act.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:07
        I'm going to tell you exactly
why in under 30 seconds.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:10
        Go.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:11
        You know giving us
something we do to honor God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:13
        It's a discipline that we
must work to develop
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:15
        because it's something that
exposes our heart to God,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:18
        tells Him kind of
where we're at.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:20
        And if you want to take the step
       
    
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00:17:21
        of showing your
heart to God and say,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:23
        "Yes, I want to give.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:24
        I want to honor You
in that way, God,"
       
    
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00:17:26
        you can go to
Crossroads.net/give for more.
       
    
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00:17:29
        Now back to the message.
       
    
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00:17:32
        - Maybe some of us are being
faced with fire right now even.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:36
        Maybe some of
us are in situations
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:38
        that feel like a rock
and a hard place,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:40
        or between a furious
king and a hot fire.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:44
        And we're just not
sure what to do.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:47
        I told you myself, I
got about four bullies
       
    
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00:17:49
        that I'm currently dealing with.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:50
        And my buliies, they don't
look like King Nebuchadnezzar.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:53
        In fact, they don't even talk,
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:55
        but they do look like
anxiety around my health.
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:57
        They do look like
fear of the health
       
    
      - 
        
00:17:59
        of my young nephew who
needs a life changing surgery.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:02
        They do look like
anger and like pride,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:05
        and these bullies, all
of them are screaming.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:07
        They want me to bow.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:09
        They're all looking
for me to bow to him
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:12
        and forget that God
was ever faithful.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:16
        Whatever your bullies are,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:18
        I want to encourage
you, don't bow.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:22
        And here's what
helps us do that:
       
    
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        prepping ahead of time.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:26
        And we do that by building
our faith through God's Word
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:29
        and having the
courage to believe.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:33
        The three Hebrew boys
had courage to believe,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:36
        not because, like I said,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:37
        they were some
superhuman Christians,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:39
        not because they had
everything together,
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:41
        but simply because they
had seen God do things before
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:46
        and they knew He was able.
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:48
        They had probably already lived
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:50
        full lives of faithfulness,
but they also came from
       
    
      - 
        
00:18:54
        a long line of people,
the Jewish nation,
       
    
      - 
        
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        who had watched
God do the impossible.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:01
        I want you to take a
second to look back
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:03
        and think back
over your own life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:06
        Think back and look back
and see if you can find
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:08
        the places where God
has absolutely shown up
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:11
        and been good.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:12
        Whether you've been walking
with Jesus for a long time,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:15
        whether you're thinking
about this Jesus thing,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:17
        you don't even know
what you believe.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:18
        This still applies to you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:19
        I want you to take a
second and think about
       
    
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00:19:22
        if any of the good
moments in your life
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:24
        you can attribute
to God's goodness.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:26
        And if you can't think
about your own life,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:28
        think about the life of your
friends or your neighbors.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:31
        Where has God been good?
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:34
        I had a mentor once,
a good one at that,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:37
        who told me that sometimes
we get spiritual amnesia.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:41
        And what she was talking
about was not real amnesia,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:44
        but she was saying we
can forget the goodness
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:47
        and faithfulness of God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:49
        See, when we remember
God's faithfulness,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:52
        it gives us this
courage to believe,
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:54
        it builds our faith.
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:55
        So something practical that I do
       
    
      - 
        
00:19:57
        is I just write all the good
things that God has done,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:00
        I write them down.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:02
        I just keep this running list
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:03
        that I start at the
beginning of the year
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:05
        so that any time I'm
actually discouraged,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:07
        any time I'm down, any
time I'm facing my bully,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:09
        I look at that list
and I remember
       
    
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00:20:11
        that God has actually been good.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:12
        He's actually been faithful.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:14
        Another thing I do
is I read my Bible.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:17
        And it sounds really
simple, but it's actually
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:20
        a book full of the stories
of God's faithfulness.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:23
        And you know what?
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:24
        You can do that right
now with our whole church
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:26
        by joining us in
the Bible Challenge.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:29
        You see, when
we do these things,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:31
        like hop on the app and
do the Bible Challenge
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:33
        or learn about Jesus
through scriptures,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:35
        or look at our list of all
the ways He's been good,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:37
        when we do these things,
although they seem simple,
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:40
        it builds our faith
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:41
        and it gives us the
courage to believe.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:45
        It reminds us that God's
power, and it gives us a chance
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:48
        to stand in the face of the fire
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:49
        and not to bow to the
loudest and the angriest
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:52
        and even the
scariest of our bullies.
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:54
        And if you're like me,
it gives us the courage
       
    
      - 
        
00:20:56
        to stand despite what
other people think about you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:01
        And it even makes
us choose death,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:03
        rather than bowing to
something we know is wrong.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:06
        So let's hurry up, and
let's get to the good part.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:08
        So the king gets really mad
and he's, like, going crazy.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:11
        He's like, "Oh my
gosh, like, can't believe
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:13
        that you're not going to bow."
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:15
        But he's not just mad
because they won't bow.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:16
        He's especially mad
because they're choosing to,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:19
        like I said, defy him in
front of all his elite friends.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:22
        So he gets so
mad that he's like,
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:24
        "Let's turn the heat up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:25
        Let's turn the fire
seven times hotter."
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:28
        And this fire is so hot that
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:30
        the people who are
guarding the fire, they die.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:33
        Can you imagine, like, getting
dressed for work that day?
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:36
        Like, "Oh, putting on
my little guard thing.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:37
        I'm about to join the service
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:39
        and I'm going to
serve the king."
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:40
        You did not expect
to die by the fire
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:43
        that wasn't even
meant to kill you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:45
        But that's how hot this fire is
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:47
        because the king
wants to make sure
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:48
        that these disobedient
delinquents are killed.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:52
        But spoiler alert:
they don't die.
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:55
        In fact, the Bible is
certain to note that
       
    
      - 
        
00:21:58
        they were bound up in
ropes in all of their clothing.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:01
        But when they
come out of the fire,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:03
        not a single thing
on them is burned,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:05
        not even their hair, and
they don't smell like smoke.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:09
        And that seems crazy.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:10
        But what's even crazier
is what happens next,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:13
        because King
Nebuchadnezzar is so pleased,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:15
        he's so amazed that
their God has saved them,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:18
        that he issues
this violent decree
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:20
        that anybody who
speaks against the God
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:22
        of Shadrach, Meshach and
Abednego, you know what?
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:25
        I've got news for you:
You're going to be ruined.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:27
        In fact, I'm going to
tear you limb to limb.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:30
        And that's really violent.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:31
        And after that, he
promotes them again.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:35
        And they become even
bigger, more powerful bosses
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:38
        than they already were.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:40
        God uses this moment to boss up
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:42
        Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:44
        See, what their haters
intended to be their downfall
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:47
        was actually their promotion.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:49
        God uses this moment to shine
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:52
        through the three Hebrew boys,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:54
        and not just so that
they haters could see it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:56
        Not just so King
Nebuchadnezzar can see it,
       
    
      - 
        
00:22:58
        but so that all the
powerful people
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:00
        of the Land of
Babylon get to see it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:02
        And they all get
to see God's power
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:04
        through Shadrach,
Meshach and Abednego.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:08
        See, they chose to stand,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:10
        settled in their
own convictions,
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:12
        believing in the power of God.
       
    
      - 
        
00:23:13
        And the impossible
happened for everybody to see.
       
    
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        Listen, I don't
want to fool you.
       
    
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        Sometimes God will
allow us to be tested
       
    
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        and even tempted
with our biggest bullies.
       
    
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        But when we are faithful to God
       
    
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        in the face of difficulty,
our scariest moments,
       
    
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00:23:33
        He turns around
and He blesses us.
       
    
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00:23:37
        The pressures of life are real.
       
    
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00:23:40
        And sometimes they put us
       
    
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        in these really
tight situations,
       
    
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        situations that
make us want to bow
       
    
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00:23:45
        and to give in to whatever
our pressing circumstance
       
    
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00:23:48
        is in the moment.
       
    
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00:23:49
        Situations that make
us forget all about
       
    
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        the goodness and
faithfulness of God.
       
    
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00:23:53
        And maybe you're like
me and you feel like,
       
    
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00:23:55
        "Man, I've actually
already failed because
       
    
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00:23:57
        I was given the opportunity
to stand up for Jesus,
       
    
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        and I choked."
       
    
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        But I've got good
news for all of us.
       
    
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00:24:04
        This story reminds us that
even when we're facing haters
       
    
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        and bullies, and even when
all the odds are against us
       
    
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00:24:10
        and there's pressure
on every side.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:12
        And yes, even when we feel
like we've disappointed God,
       
    
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00:24:15
        we can take a look
back at God's faithfulness
       
    
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00:24:18
        and have the courage to
stand and believe in His power.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:21
        And when we do this,
God does impossible things.
       
    
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00:24:24
        When we respond to the challenge
       
    
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00:24:26
        of standing in the face of
the impossible circumstances,
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:29
        with faith and with
courage, God shows up.
       
    
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00:24:33
        And then he
doesn't just show up.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:34
        He bosses us up, y'all.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:36
        He promotes us, takes
us to the next level in Him,
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:39
        teaches us something new,
and He moves on our behalf.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:43
        And this happens when
we have the courage
       
    
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00:24:45
        to face our biggest bullies
by preparing ahead of time
       
    
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00:24:49
        and being sure that we know,
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:51
        that we know that we
know that God is able.
       
    
      - 
        
00:24:55
        You remember Imani
Newsome, you know,
       
    
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00:24:58
        she never actually
stood up to me to my face.
       
    
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00:25:00
        But even in the face of all
of my four year old threats,
       
    
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00:25:04
        she had the courage
to do something else.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:05
        She told our teacher,
believe it or not.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:08
        And guess what?
It made a difference.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:10
        Now, we never became friends,
       
    
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00:25:12
        but she knew
something that I didn't.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:14
        When we have the courage
to stand up to our bullies,
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:17
        our lives change for the better.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:19
        And the best news is we
don't have to do it alone.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:23
        God is able and He will help us.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:26
        We just need to
remember His faithfulness
       
    
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00:25:29
        and have the courage to believe.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:33
        You know how to do
that Bible Challenge
       
    
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00:25:35
        that I talked about happens
right here in this app.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:39
        Right here you
read and you journal
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:41
        and it's right at
your fingertips.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:43
        It's all happening and going
down in the Crossroads app.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:45
        - The best part is we
get through that together.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:47
        So when you do that, you'll see
journals from me, from Brian.
       
    
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00:25:50
        - From me.
- From Hannah in there.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:52
        We can read the Bible together.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:54
        But don't just take
what we write as you're,
       
    
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00:25:56
        like, expert input.
       
    
      - 
        
00:25:57
        I mean, hopefully we are like
somewhat of an expert on --
       
    
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00:26:00
        - A little bit, a tiny bit.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:01
        But we've actually made
something even better for you.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:03
        It's the Daniel guidebook.
You can get it for free.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:06
        It's got context, history,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:09
        things that you're
not going to get
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:10
        just by reading the words alone,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:12
        or maybe even reading
what we write about it.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:14
        So get this.
It's completely free.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:16
        Go to
Crossroads.net/BibleChallenge.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:18
        We will mail one to your house.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:20
        - That's excellent.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:21
        We'll see you next
week on Crossroads.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:26
        - There is a way
that leads to life.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:32
        It's not the paved path,
well lit, well-traveled, known.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:37
        It's the ancient path,
narrow, forgotten, wild.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:43
        Few are willing to walk it,
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:45
        but those who do find what
they've been searching for.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:50
        Be one of them.
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:54
        Walk the way that leads to life
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:56
        and find faith in
a faithless world
       
    
      - 
        
00:26:59
        happening now in
the Crossroads Anywhere App.