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Born Wild: Friday 6:30pm

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Born Wild: Saturday 3:00 PM

This could be one of the most memorable experiences you will have in your lifetime. A chance to see true transformation. See the embodiment of unbridled strength, go from surviving to thriving. Because even though we were born wild, we were designed to live free.

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    [music]
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    - Welcome to Crossroads.
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    How's everybody doing today? Yes.
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    My name is Brian Tome.
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    I'm what's known as a Senior Pastor around here.
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    It's great to be with everybody.
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    This has become a bit of an annual tradition for us.
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    I, a number of years ago had somebody on my podcast,
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    and we hit it off pretty well.
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    I think I'm going to stand up here just because I can.
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    How often do I get to get up here?
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    Yeah, let's do that.
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    I had somebody on my podcast,
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    so I hit it off with and then he invited me
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    on a hunting trip in Idaho a year or so later.
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    I said, sure, I'll do that.
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    I went on a hunting trip with him.
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    And then I found out what he did.
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    He has this, you might say, supernatural,
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    even mystical ability to connect with horses.
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    I like to call him a horse whisperer,
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    even though he doesn't like that term.
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    And he told me what he did, and I said,
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    "Man, I'd love to have you at the church
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    I started and pastor called Crossroads."
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    Churches always say that.
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    Hey, hey. Yeah. Come here.
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    Ooh, I like it, a little skittish.
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    He's skittish. That's good.
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    That's good for me. Bad news for you, Todd.
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    And so, "Well, you know, insurance and everything,
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    churches never do it because it's too dangerous."
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    And I said we're going to do it, and we have done it.
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    And so I'm happy you're here, everybody.
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    I've heard some little kids in here. Awesome, awesome.
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    Mom and dad, I'm just going to ask you
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    if your kid's getting out of hand,
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    we need you to take them outside immediately,
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    because it actually could put Todd in danger
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    if something scares the horse.
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    So we're going to be pretty strict about that.
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    You might be concerned about this horse.
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    We love this horse. We're for this horse.
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    People wonder, isn't this horse being freaked out?
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    No. Well, a little bit freaked out.
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    How many of us have been in front of 3000 people,
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    or however many people are here, right?
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    I know it's noisy out in your sights,
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    wherever you are, but right in here,
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    the speakers aren't pointing this way.
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    It doesn't hurt the horse.
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    He's going to be a little -- He or she?
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    Is it a he or she? He.
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    What are you looking down there for?
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    What is wrong with you people?
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    It's a girl. All right. Hope it's a girl. Okay.
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    So the horse is fine. He's fine.
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    She is. She's in a good place.
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    And believe it or not, as we'll talk
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    in a little bit, the horse is going
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    to be better off at the end of this
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    as a result of this experience.
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    So why -- Oh, by the way,
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    if you want to be generous around here
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    and be a part of what's happening here,
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    you can go to Crossroads.net/give.
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    We don't pass a plate of Crossroads,
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    but you can go to Crossroads.net/give.
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    Well, without any further ado,
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    I want to bring up my good friend and,
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    gosh, rodeo expert, horse whisperer, Todd Pierce.
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    Come on up here. [applause] All right.
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    So you were on the pro bareback riding tour.
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    - We're going to keep getting this. Yeah.
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    - What's it called? - Pro rodeo circuit.
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    - Pro rodeo circuit.
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    And your specialty was bareback riding.
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    - Yes, sir. Good job. - Okay, I did that right?
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    - Yeah. We got it now.
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    - So what's the difference between
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    what you did on the tour
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    and what you're going to do here today
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    in terms of skill level, all that kind of stuff?
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    - Yeah. This takes way more skill, I believe,
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    than than bareback riding did.
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    Bareback was an athletic event
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    that was very competitive.
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    And it was man against horse.
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    And this is me man with horse.
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    And the horses that are in the rodeo world,
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    they're bred specifically to be bucking horses.
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    They enjoy it.
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    The reason that they end up at a professional level
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    is because they're good at it.
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    And so everybody loves doing what they're good at,
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    and they only buck for eight seconds.
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    And so a typical horse bucks
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    about a minute and a half a year.
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    So it's not a super strenuous job on them.
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    But I'm an animal lover and I think that
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    there's a lot of people have got
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    some misunderstandings of what that whole world was like.
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    But yeah, I did come out of that world,
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    which kind of sucks that you bring it up
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    because people think that that means that
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    if this horse bucks that,
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    I'm going to actually be able to stay on
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    and I can't anymore, so I just fall off.
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    - Yeah. He does.
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    He last year, I found out he's got --
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    You got some muscles in your whatever region down here.
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    - Pelvic region. - Pelvic region.
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    There you go. Pelvic region.
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    And some friends of mine who are chiropractors,
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    Baker Chiropractic, they were here
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    and they came in and did a little magic on you last year.
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    But you've got some serious issues.
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    So Todd can't really pinch his knees,
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    which you really need.
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    And he can't take his feet and clinch
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    because that's an intimidating thing for a horse.
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    So he ends up falling off.
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    You haven't fallen off yet,
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    but maybe today is the time. You know.
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    - Everybody needs a friend like Brian.
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    It's just like -- - I want some good drama.
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    That's what I want. That's what I want.
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    All right, let me pray for us
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    and then do your thing.
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    So, God, thank You for our day.
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    And thank you for this horse.
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    I pray that You would do something
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    really special in that horse,
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    and you would help us to connect
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    with that horse's story, because I know
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    there is a bunch of people in here
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    that have some past and some wounding
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    and some misperception about what it means
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    to have You be our master.
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    And we're trusting for You to make that clear.
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    And it's funny, God, too to ask you protect Todd.
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    We say that oftentimes protect and, like,
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    there's no harm, there's protect.
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    But this is like a real thing.
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    So we do ask for You to protect him
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    and give him amazing wisdom as he teaches us today.
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    Amen.
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    One more thing I would just say,
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    Crossroads is obviously a very, very large church.
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    And when things get really, really large,
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    in order to get large, you have to have systems,
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    you have to have processes, all that stuff.
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    And so you just come to expect that.
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    But what happens on the downside is,
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    you folks don't believe me when I say
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    Todd has never seen this horse until he's come in.
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    It's a brand new horse
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    he's never laid eyes on every single service.
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    We're doing eight this year.
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    We don't control this at all.
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    I've actually seen this over the years.
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    I think there's --
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    I think you've been able to ride every horse, I think.
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    But you never know what's going to happen.
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    There is true drama here. This is not a fix.
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    I know you don't trust me.
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    Those of you are paranoid about big churches.
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    You think everything's planned. It's not.
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    So let's have fun. All right?
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    - Right on. Yeah.
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    So, the way that happens is that
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    I've got a man that -- Britton Collum.
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    He's the tall, strange guy in the back
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    or tall dark stranger,
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    is that we call it strange stranger.
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    He actually goes out and finds these horses
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    and brings them and won't ever tell me
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    anything about them on purpose.
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    If there's something that I need to know,
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    like, if they've got an injury or something like that,
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    then he'd give me a heads up.
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    But it makes it to where I can encounter
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    this horse at the same time you guys are.
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    And I did see that she's a she,
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    and which really doesn't make
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    a whole lot of difference in
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    how this interaction is going to take place.
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    But I put a really high value on
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    just being able to be myself.
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    And so I just want to thank you guys for showing up
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    and all the generous people that have made it
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    to where it's possible for this to happen
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    because this ain't easy.
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    But I hope you -- My biggest hope is that
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    every one of you are going to realize that
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    Jesus modeled this thing that where
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    He would just walk through life,
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    and then He would find a moment and He would stop
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    and He would pick up something
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    or He would point to something
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    and He would create a parable.
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    And that's all this is, is it's a parable
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    of how Jesus would communicate in a way
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    that just in a public setting,
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    He would demonstrate something that's a mystery
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    until He shows them a parable.
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    And then those that have got eyes to see
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    and ears to hear, they actually get a revelation.
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    It's more than knowledge.
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    And I don't -- I don't know
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    if that might sound strange to you,
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    but you're going to know something
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    that's impossible to be known with the human mind.
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    It's something that's going to be spiritual
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    and it's going to -- it's going to change you.
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    And if you're open for that just clap.
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    [applause] I like that.
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    It sounds like everybody clapped, but also
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    she didn't move so that's a good sign, Brian.
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    But because she walked up to Brian that way
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    and even her posture right now,
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    I know that she's been handled,
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    that she's been raised.
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    I'm going to say, let's say that
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    she was raised in a family
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    and that she was well cared for.
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    She's a small breed.
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    She's not a young horse.
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    She's well, she's young, she's two,
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    but she's of the age when you actually,
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    this is when you train them
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    is when they're two years old.
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    And if she was in the competition world by now,
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    she'd already be competing because
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    they would have started her early on in the winter.
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    So don't let her size fool you.
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    But because she's familiar with people
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    and she's had the handling that she's had,
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    what she wants me to do is just walk up to her
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    and catch her, and then I'll lead her
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    to whatever she's supposed to do next.
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    And I don't want to do that because
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    I'm communicating something to her that's --
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    It's consistent with her instincts.
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    Where in the herd that she was raised in,
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    and how she's come to know how to fit in socially.
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    I'm teaching her right now
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    that I actually have authority over her.
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    And it's not authority that I asked for.
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    This is authority that God gave us.
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    That's a good girl.
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    But unlike the world that she lives in,
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    the authority that I have,
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    I want to use all the authority that I have
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    to give her power, not to take her strength from her.
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    And I want to ask a really honest question.
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    And then I'm going to have --
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    The band is just going to play some music
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    while you answer this question because
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    every one of us have got a belief system.
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    I'm not sure what your belief system is, but
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    what do you believe that God believes about you?
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    Like, if Jesus was to stand before you right now,
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    just you and Him alone.
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    And He wanted to tell you about you,
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    what would He say?
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    What is His opinion of you?
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    And if we're going to have
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    a starting place tonight, it's really important
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    that you'd be honest with yourself on
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    what do you think God thinks about you?
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    [music]
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    I just wanted to give an example of why it is
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    that. Jesus being as attentive as He is
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    and finding that she didn't even know
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    what was wrong with her, that Jesus comes in
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    and He reveals to us things
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    that are stealing life from us.
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    The Bible would call it sin,
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    or a lot of religious people use it sin.
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    But really it's just anything in our life
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    that's not whole.
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    It's parts of our life that's stealing from us.
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    I'm pretty sure you're not going to
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    be able to see it from here.
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    I'm not sure how good the cameras are,
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    but that's a tick and it was on her neck.
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    Yeah, it's kind of gross, huh?
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    You ever heard fat as a tick?
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    That sucker's been sucking blood
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    till it's about to pop.
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    Here, Britton.
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    But I'm thankful for just,
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    I don't take things like that, like, for granted.
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    And there's people in this room right now,
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    and you think that you're fine.
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    You think that you're getting away with things.
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    And I'm telling you that anything
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    that's separating you from the love of God
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    is because you're not one of His sons.
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    We can have things that are going on in our life
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    that aren't quite right,
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    if we're sons and daughters.
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    But if you're not one with God
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    and you know who you are,
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    you know that you're not one with God.
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    If you're not one with God,
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    then these things in your life, they're killing you.
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    And if they're left too long,
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    they're not only going to the spread
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    to you and destroy your life.
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    You continue to be a part of the problem
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    and the things that are destroying the lives around us.
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    We've got a nation that is just desperate
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    to see what it's like to have whole people.
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    And whole people know what sin is.
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    They understand that it's devastating.
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    It's not something that we can hide.
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    It's going to have its effect on us.
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    And I just prophetically take the blood
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    that has been stolen from her
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    and just get rid of it.
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    And say that anybody that's in this room
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    that wants to be one of God's sons,
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    wants to be one of his daughters,
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    if you want to be one with God,
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    that that's something that's available
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    to you right now, all you have to do is make a decision.
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    Right now, she's making a decision
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    what she's going to do with me.
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    And I've come to seek and to save what was lost in her.
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    And what was lost was the oneness
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    that she was created for.
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    Some people say that I want
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    to have a relationship with her.
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    I don't want a relationship.
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    I've got relationships with people.
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    And the thing about human relationships is
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    if I do my part, they'll do their part.
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    If I love them, they'll love me back.
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    If I give to them, they'll give to me.
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    That's what most human relationships are like.
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    So I'm not looking for a relationship.
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    I want her to know that no matter what she does,
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    that I choose her.
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    I do want to become one with her,
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    and that's going to revolve around her decisions
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    and her willingness to allow me to.
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    But just by using the word relationship,
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    it implies that --
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    That if she doesn't do her part,
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    that I'm going to fail to do my part.
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    And that's just not who God is.
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    But this stage where she's at right now
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    and all this familiarity and kindness
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    and being okay with me being around her,
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    that's great.
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    I'm not sure what she'll say about the part
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    when I get -- ask her if I can become one with her.
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    That's a good girl.
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    [music]
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    - I'm waiting for something because
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    she's passive enough that she's tolerating
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    some things that she's not actually
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    very, very okay with.
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    Like, she let me get on her.
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    But did you see how she was just frozen?
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    When she stopped and she's still looking around,
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    she's just really distracted by what's going on.
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    So, she hasn't really made up her mind about me.
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    And if I rush it --
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    That's a good girl.
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    [music]
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    So, she doesn't know the words that I'm saying,
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    but there's a sensitivity that she has
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    that we don't even have.
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    She's monitoring my pulse right now.
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    She can smell things.
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    And the reason I posture myself in certain ways,
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    and the reason I talk the way I talk
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    is because the vibrations and everything
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    that I'm communicating to her,
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    she doesn't understand my words,
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    but she understands more clearly
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    than some of you are understanding
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    what I'm saying right now.
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    And so if I can create a space
  • 00:27:24
    and the principles that Jesus modeled
  • 00:27:27
    to where He carried such a peace
  • 00:27:29
    and such a power and such a presence
  • 00:27:30
    that it commanded the wind and the waves,
  • 00:27:34
    that it would cause dead things to come to life,
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    it would make things that are broken
  • 00:27:39
    become whole again.
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    That He had that much of a commanding presence
  • 00:27:44
    in the way that he chose to display it
  • 00:27:46
    was through such humility and kindness.
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    It made it to where He would make Himself
  • 00:27:51
    a servant of other people,
  • 00:27:52
    not because he saw himself as a servant.
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    It's because He knew that He was a Son of God.
  • 00:27:59
    It's a different kind of humility.
  • 00:28:02
    It's not that I'm humbled because I have to be humble.
  • 00:28:08
    It's because I choose to be humble
  • 00:28:10
    because I'm so overwhelmed with the love
  • 00:28:12
    that I'm receiving from God.
  • 00:28:13
    I don't have to get the service from other people.
  • 00:28:18
    And that's what's intoxicating to her.
  • 00:28:21
    And it's setting a stage for her to do
  • 00:28:25
    something that otherwise would be very dramatic.
  • 00:28:32
    And I'm not sure what walking together
  • 00:28:34
    is going to be like, but she's okay with this part.
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    [music]
  • 00:30:54
    - That's a good girl.
  • 00:31:00
    Wow.
  • 00:31:05
    So, there's something about her left side
  • 00:31:07
    that she's not so familiar with.
  • 00:31:09
    And the way horses are designed is their brain
  • 00:31:12
    doesn't translate information from side to side.
  • 00:31:15
    So there's -- you could call them, like,
  • 00:31:18
    having multiple personalities, but they don't.
  • 00:31:20
    It's just that what happens on her right side
  • 00:31:22
    isn't the same thing.
  • 00:31:23
    She doesn't translate that to the left side.
  • 00:31:27
    And so she saw me out of that side.
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    And that's when she got scared for a minute.
  • 00:31:33
    And the bucking's not a problem.
  • 00:31:37
    Some people disagree with me. T
  • 00:31:40
    he problem would be is if she actually feels
  • 00:31:43
    like she's succeeded by bucking.
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    That it's not getting her what she wants,
  • 00:31:51
    because what she wants is she wants to feel safe
  • 00:31:54
    and she's learning how to enjoy connection.
  • 00:32:02
    And if we can move our feet at the same time.
  • 00:32:08
    Yeah. She's -- Hammer's cocked.
  • 00:32:16
    Come on, sweetie. Come on, sweetie.
  • 00:32:27
    [music]
  • 00:33:57
    - Still really distracted.
  • 00:34:01
    Oh, we're good on time.
  • 00:34:09
    I'm not sure when things went wrong.
  • 00:34:11
    I know that when Jesus walks onto the scene,
  • 00:34:15
    He realizes that He's --
  • 00:34:17
    Well, He knows that He's walking into
  • 00:34:19
    a culture of people that think
  • 00:34:20
    that they're honoring God because
  • 00:34:23
    they're obedient to what God said for them to do.
  • 00:34:25
    And the same people that were teaching others
  • 00:34:28
    how to follow God didn't recognize God
  • 00:34:32
    when God showed up.
  • 00:34:35
    To me, that would be really embarrassing.
  • 00:34:38
    If my wife was to show up
  • 00:34:42
    and I didn't recognize her,
  • 00:34:44
    there would have to be something horribly wrong
  • 00:34:48
    in my marriage if the one that I call my beloved
  • 00:34:53
    I don't even recognize her
  • 00:34:55
    when she walks in the room.
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    And this one that they called their God,
  • 00:35:05
    Jesus walks in the room and they hate Him.
  • 00:35:09
    That's how far humanity has slipped
  • 00:35:12
    from what it's like to be a follower of rules,
  • 00:35:15
    versus someone that's had an encounter
  • 00:35:17
    with the living God that made it to where we become whole.
  • 00:35:23
    And it's only been a couple of years,
  • 00:35:24
    but she's a fully matured adult,
  • 00:35:30
    and her story has led her to a place
  • 00:35:32
    where she's this confused.
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    That there was a part of her DNA
  • 00:35:37
    that's in her nature to live independently,
  • 00:35:44
    but at the same time, there's something
  • 00:35:46
    that's going on around her and inside of her
  • 00:35:48
    where she's like, "I want to know this guy,
  • 00:35:50
    but I don't know how to."
  • 00:35:52
    And I love the fact that Jesus gave Himself
  • 00:35:55
    years to walk with his disciples
  • 00:35:56
    and to show them the ways that He does things.
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    Not just what He does, but the way in which
  • 00:36:03
    He did it, and the kindness and the humility
  • 00:36:06
    and the brokenness and the joy and the laughter.
  • 00:36:37
    [music]
  • 00:39:14
    - Do we have the lyrics to that song?
  • 00:39:21
    Gosh, guys, if you showed up here tonight
  • 00:39:23
    and you expected God to do something
  • 00:39:25
    that would be life altering,
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    I've got faith for that.
  • 00:39:29
    I'm not sure if you do, but I think
  • 00:39:30
    I've got enough faith for the whole room
  • 00:39:33
    that this this word is something
  • 00:39:36
    that God is singing over you.
  • 00:39:38
    And I want to have the lyrics to it
  • 00:39:41
    because she's already said yes.
  • 00:39:44
    And if you want to say that she's been born again,
  • 00:39:46
    she's been born again.
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    She's like, "Absolutely,
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    you can have full access to me.
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    I only want what you want, but I'm still scared.
  • 00:39:56
    And I don't know what it looks like to do the next thing."
  • 00:40:00
    And this is where the journey and the joy
  • 00:40:02
    and the pleasure that we have
  • 00:40:06
    to be ones that partner with heaven
  • 00:40:08
    and carry the same presence that
  • 00:40:10
    rose Jesus from the dead
  • 00:40:11
    becomes a tangible reality to you.
  • 00:40:14
    You're not sitting in this room
  • 00:40:15
    and just going to go home the same way,
  • 00:40:17
    trying to manage your sin or manage your problems,
  • 00:40:20
    because you're not going to live a life
  • 00:40:22
    of reaction to what's going on around you.
  • 00:40:24
    There's going to be some -- some --
  • 00:40:26
    Something created within you that's going to make it
  • 00:40:29
    to where you actually realize that
  • 00:40:30
    you've got authority over the things
  • 00:40:32
    that are around you.
  • 00:40:33
    You might not be able to change them,
  • 00:40:35
    but you get to govern yourself in the midst of them.
  • 00:40:38
    And some of you are going through really hard things,
  • 00:40:40
    and it's almost a kindness of God
  • 00:40:44
    not to take you out of them so that
  • 00:40:45
    you can see the power that you have to remain in them.
  • 00:40:50
    I can't let her just stop in this fear.
  • 00:40:54
    It wouldn't be kindness.
  • 00:40:57
    She's not going to get over it until she does it.
  • 00:41:00
    I'm not going to be able to talk her into it.
  • 00:41:03
    She can't watch somebody else do it.
  • 00:41:05
    She's got to walk through this.
  • 00:41:08
    And she's getting her confidence.
  • 00:41:10
    I'm not sure if you're seeing
  • 00:41:11
    her ears go forward and backwards,
  • 00:41:13
    but she's learning to look again
  • 00:41:15
    at what's going on around her
  • 00:41:16
    and not just be focused on me.
  • 00:41:19
    I think this is what we get to do
  • 00:41:20
    as sons and daughters of God.
  • 00:41:22
    I've got two of my sons sitting back here,
  • 00:41:24
    and I just love the fact that they would take
  • 00:41:26
    the effort to drive all the way out here,
  • 00:41:29
    just so that they could sit and watch their dad.
  • 00:41:33
    There's something about us modeling things
  • 00:41:35
    to make it to where Jesus modeled something
  • 00:41:38
    so that we could know how it is to walk,
  • 00:41:40
    how to be a man.
  • 00:41:42
    And if that becomes the standard for humanity,
  • 00:41:45
    you women figure out what to do with it
  • 00:41:47
    in the feminine sense
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    because it's equally as powerful.
  • 00:41:51
    I could actually say that maybe even more so.
  • 00:41:55
    And that's why God had to put man at the head,
  • 00:41:59
    so that we would all know what it's like to submit.
  • 00:42:03
    That us being submitted to God makes it to where
  • 00:42:06
    we know how to love and care
  • 00:42:07
    and take care of our wives.
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    That we're so submitted to God
  • 00:42:11
    that laying our lives down for our wives
  • 00:42:13
    doesn't sound like a stupid thing to do.
  • 00:42:16
    It actually is the only rational thing
  • 00:42:17
    for me to do is to love my wife
  • 00:42:19
    the same way Christ loved me,
  • 00:42:21
    the same way I would tend for my own body,
  • 00:42:24
    I would tend for her.
  • 00:42:28
    And I'll just join the ranks with Paul
  • 00:42:30
    and say that no, although I haven't yet arrived,
  • 00:42:33
    there is one thing that I will do.
  • 00:42:34
    I'll quit looking back on what I haven't done,
  • 00:42:37
    and I'm going to keep my focus forward
  • 00:42:39
    on what it is that Jesus said that I can do.
  • 00:42:53
    [music]
  • 00:45:26
    - If everybody would just --
  • 00:45:28
    Don't look at the screen. Watch her for a second.
  • 00:45:36
    I don't know what it's like for you
  • 00:45:38
    to partner with Jesus and Father and Holy Spirit,
  • 00:45:42
    knowing that this is one God.
  • 00:45:50
    But I want you to see a picture.
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    Because I know that so many people,
  • 00:46:08
    I think they've grown up in a culture
  • 00:46:11
    that's either made it all about you
  • 00:46:15
    and you find yourself a prisoner to your own desires,
  • 00:46:19
    and you know that you can't ever get enough.
  • 00:46:22
    And it's made you so self-focused
  • 00:46:26
    that it's your own prison.
  • 00:46:30
    And then I see a whole sea of people
  • 00:46:32
    that have devoted their life to Jesus,
  • 00:46:33
    and they don't know how much freedom
  • 00:46:35
    there actually is in that.
  • 00:46:38
    And that her fear isn't intimidating anybody.
  • 00:46:41
    It's just something that she's going to
  • 00:46:43
    be cared for and worked through with.
  • 00:46:47
    And this opportunity that, I just love this song.
  • 00:46:53
    It's like we were made for more than
  • 00:46:56
    to just get born again and hope that
  • 00:46:57
    we can go to heaven one day.
  • 00:46:59
    That there's this power and this resource
  • 00:47:01
    that's been made available to us.
  • 00:47:03
    And when Jesus said it was better
  • 00:47:04
    that He went away, He actually was serious.
  • 00:47:07
    That when Holy Spirit comes and He fills us,
  • 00:47:10
    and if you're open and you're just going to say,
  • 00:47:12
    "Holy Spirit, fill me right now in this place."
  • 00:47:16
    That if you're going to give permission to that,
  • 00:47:18
    then He's saying that it's better.
  • 00:47:21
    It's better than actually having Jesus walking with you.
  • 00:47:29
    And then they're not walking around just
  • 00:47:30
    trying to figure out how to stay out of trouble.
  • 00:47:32
    But now you're going to partner with Him,
  • 00:47:34
    and you're going to know what it's like to be healed
  • 00:47:37
    and just hear the voice of God being spoken over you,
  • 00:47:40
    where you know that you are His beloved son
  • 00:47:42
    and His favor is resting on you.
  • 00:47:51
    We come against any orphan spirit in the name of Jesus.
  • 00:47:57
    Thank you, King Jesus, for giving us that authority.
  • 00:48:02
    And Holy Spirit, whatever it is
  • 00:48:03
    that you'd want to do in us, we say yes to it,
  • 00:48:06
    that we fall in love with
  • 00:48:07
    the things that You're in love with.
  • 00:48:21
    [music]
  • 00:50:02
    - If there's somebody here
  • 00:50:04
    and you've got hair in your eyes, like,
  • 00:50:05
    you've got part of your hair over one of your eyes,
  • 00:50:08
    would you get it out of the way for a second?
  • 00:50:10
    Clear out of the way.
  • 00:50:12
    If it's blocking your peripheral view, move it.
  • 00:50:15
    You don't have to, but I just feel like you really should.
  • 00:50:21
    She was hiding behind her hair.
  • 00:50:24
    She wouldn't let me see this eye.
  • 00:50:27
    And she would was stiff necked about it.
  • 00:50:30
    I don't know what her story is,
  • 00:50:32
    but she's telling me about it.
  • 00:50:35
    And this is uncomfortable for her.
  • 00:50:41
    But now that she sees.
  • 00:50:46
    See how she's about to fall asleep.
  • 00:50:50
    For real.
  • 00:50:53
    There was like this hiddenness that she came out of.
  • 00:50:59
    And I know what it's like to hide things
  • 00:51:02
    and the fear and the insecurity
  • 00:51:04
    that comes along with it.
  • 00:51:06
    This is the beauty of having King Jesus as a papa,
  • 00:51:11
    that we don't have to hide anything.
  • 00:51:13
    And whatever it is that you got to talk about,
  • 00:51:16
    just talk to Him about it.
  • 00:51:22
    And then you're going to have the courage
  • 00:51:24
    to find someone that you trust enough
  • 00:51:25
    that you can share the same thing with,
  • 00:51:28
    and you can partner with people in life
  • 00:51:30
    and we become a safe place for each other
  • 00:51:33
    where we can learn to run together.
  • 00:51:40
    So much freedom.
  • 00:51:45
    I've watched -- I've got two of my sons here,
  • 00:51:49
    but I've watched all three of them
  • 00:51:51
    go through times of hiding stuff from dad.
  • 00:51:57
    And the absolute joy when they come
  • 00:52:01
    and they talk to me about it
  • 00:52:03
    to where there's nothing hidden anymore.
  • 00:52:07
    And I'm pretty sure that
  • 00:52:08
    if there was anything hidden,
  • 00:52:09
    they wouldn't have started with what they uncovered.
  • 00:52:13
    So, this isn't just a principle,
  • 00:52:17
    and it's not something I just want to talk about tonight.
  • 00:52:19
    I hope that the freedom that Jesus has given us
  • 00:52:22
    to become one with him --
  • 00:52:26
    Have I been in the saddle yet?
  • 00:52:29
    Oh, great.
  • 00:52:34
    But she's not hidden anymore.
  • 00:52:36
    Like she can see me right now.
  • 00:52:38
    And she's purposely seeing me from her right eye.
  • 00:52:42
    So, whatever was hidden, isn't hidden anymore.
  • 00:52:48
    There's still some shocking things
  • 00:52:50
    that come along the way when you realize
  • 00:52:52
    the power that you're carrying
  • 00:52:53
    and what all that means.
  • 00:52:55
    And so, if she bucks me off,
  • 00:53:00
    I'll tell you the story why I can't ride anymore.
  • 00:53:06
    That's a good girl.
  • 00:53:10
    You're watching a miracle, by the way.
  • 00:53:27
    That's a good girl.
  • 00:53:33
    [music]
  • 00:54:03
    - You did so good.
  • 00:54:09
    It's not a one time thing.
  • 00:54:12
    Time and time again, Jesus been crucified
  • 00:54:16
    over and over again.
  • 00:54:17
    I know it was a one time event in the physical,
  • 00:54:20
    but He said that He was crucified
  • 00:54:22
    from the foundations of the earth
  • 00:54:25
    just so that we never give up on the fact
  • 00:54:27
    that there was a price that was paid
  • 00:54:29
    so that every one of us can sit here
  • 00:54:30
    and be considered pure, blameless,
  • 00:54:34
    no guilt, no shame.
  • 00:54:39
    That doesn't give us permission
  • 00:54:40
    to just live lives that are reckless.
  • 00:54:42
    It actually commands something that makes it
  • 00:54:44
    to where, "Oh, my God, literally,
  • 00:54:46
    if You've given me this much access to You
  • 00:54:49
    and the only thing that you wanted
  • 00:54:50
    was to become one with me.
  • 00:54:52
    Can we just do that the rest of our lives
  • 00:54:54
    and then see what happens in eternity?"
  • 00:55:00
    I don't know why anybody would walk away from this.
  • 00:55:05
    I don't know how you could misunderstand
  • 00:55:07
    what it is that Jesus accomplished
  • 00:55:09
    for us to become one,
  • 00:55:12
    how devastating it is for us to be apart from Him,
  • 00:55:16
    but how liberating it is when we become one with Him.
  • 00:55:23
    And I don't know what the hair in the eyes means for you,
  • 00:55:28
    but whatever it is that you feel like you're hiding,
  • 00:55:30
    you don't have to hide anymore.
  • 00:55:32
    Whatever it is you feel like
  • 00:55:34
    I've asked enough times
  • 00:55:36
    and God's just not going to fix this.
  • 00:55:38
    Maybe He's just fixing something inside of you
  • 00:55:40
    to where you can actually do something impossible.
  • 00:55:44
    The storms were something
  • 00:55:46
    that He would sleep through because
  • 00:55:47
    He knew that He had power over them.
  • 00:55:49
    They weren't going to change
  • 00:55:51
    how He was going to do His life.
  • 00:55:54
    He had such peace in the midst of the storm
  • 00:55:57
    only because He knew who He was.
  • 00:56:02
    And if we've gotten rid of an orphan spirit
  • 00:56:04
    and we're learning how to be sons
  • 00:56:06
    of a God that only wants to pour His love
  • 00:56:08
    and His adoration over you, I say, look out, world!
  • 00:56:14
    Because it was something
  • 00:56:17
    when 12 disciples got sicced on the world.
  • 00:56:20
    And here we are 2000 years later.
  • 00:56:23
    And I'm just seeing sons and daughters rise up
  • 00:56:26
    and finding out who they are.
  • 00:56:28
    I sat around a table and watch a band of men
  • 00:56:33
    just share their hearts with each other
  • 00:56:35
    at levels that few men will ever experience,
  • 00:56:38
    because they know the stakes are so high.
  • 00:56:40
    I can't hide anything.
  • 00:56:42
    I don't know what it's like to feel loved,
  • 00:56:44
    but I'm going to go after it because
  • 00:56:45
    I know that's what God's made available to me.
  • 00:56:48
    I know what it's like to be stuck in addiction,
  • 00:56:50
    but I'm not going to hide it anymore.
  • 00:56:52
    I'm going to. I'm going to bring it to a table
  • 00:56:54
    with a bunch of men that I know how to do life with.
  • 00:56:57
    This is what we're being called to.
  • 00:56:59
    We're fathering each other
  • 00:57:00
    as we're being fathered by God.
  • 00:57:26
    - Well, that was an interesting one.
  • 00:57:29
    Very interesting one.
  • 00:57:31
    I know a lot of people in church that are like this.
  • 00:57:36
    A lot of Christians are like this.
  • 00:57:38
    This looked like the most mellow one,
  • 00:57:40
    and she's been the most intense one. You know?
  • 00:57:44
    I mean, a lot of us, we know how to look good,
  • 00:57:47
    we know how to act nice and all that stuff.
  • 00:57:49
    But, man, I tell you what,
  • 00:57:52
    something doesn't go our way,
  • 00:57:53
    someone tells me something I don't want to hear,
  • 00:57:57
    someone doesn't approve of something I'm doing.
  • 00:57:59
    Oh my goodness, bucking and all that kind of stuff.
  • 00:58:01
    You know? It's easy to hide that,
  • 00:58:04
    hide that inner turmoil that's in us
  • 00:58:06
    with our looks and everything like that, you know?
  • 00:58:10
    - She had it figured out until she found out
  • 00:58:12
    that it's way better to not live that way.
  • 00:58:13
    - Yeah. Right.
  • 00:58:15
    One of the things I think is just so good for us
  • 00:58:17
    is, you know, what you did in quote unquote,
  • 00:58:21
    breaking this horse.
  • 00:58:22
    It's not like you've seen the movies, you know,
  • 00:58:24
    weighing up and pulling them down with a rope
  • 00:58:26
    and all that kind of stuff.
  • 00:58:28
    It's a completely different thing.
  • 00:58:29
    This horse has never had a person on its back, ever.
  • 00:58:33
    Never had a saddle on its back, ever.
  • 00:58:35
    And here we go.
  • 00:58:37
    And now this horse is more powerful
  • 00:58:39
    and competent than it was before, right?
  • 00:58:41
    - Yeah. She was going to live her life
  • 00:58:43
    like a victim because that's what prey animals do.
  • 00:58:45
    She's not a predator. She's a prey animal.
  • 00:58:47
    And she would have to live her whole life
  • 00:58:49
    trying to stay alive.
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    And I hate the fact that that's what
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    tending a grave would look like to me,
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    if we use the lyrics of this word --
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    Or the lyrics to this song that
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    she has no other option than to just protect herself.
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    But when I became her protector,
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    I'm the one that will remove the ticks from her.
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    - Yeah. - And that even the fear of me,
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    she had to overcome it.
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    - By the way, did you squash that tick
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    before you threw it over there?
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    - No, I just chucked it. - Oh, great.
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    - It's running around the church right now.
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    - One of us is going to get Lyme disease
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    because you couldn't squash a tick.
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    - I didn't want to hurt it.
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    - Oh. Come on.
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    So this is, I think, the big metaphor,
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    as Todd was telling me about this years ago.
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    I think about it very frequently.
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    Many of us think that the best --
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    We think we haven't figured out.
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    The way it works is I just use God
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    whenever I can't do anything else.
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    I just use God as my fire insurance policy.
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    It's something like that,
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    because I don't want to give up freedom
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    I don't want someone riding me.
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    I don't want someone telling me what to do.
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    I want to be free, as in,
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    I don't want to be under anybody's authority.
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    But the truth is, one man on a trained horse
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    can ride faster, further and longer
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    than a horse that is unbroken.
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    One guy can run up an entire herd of wild horses,
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    because there's a power that gets unlocked
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    when you come under the someone's care
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    who loves you and cares for you.
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    And that's what God does for you.
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    You're not getting over on the system.
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    If you're one of these come to church
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    every once in a while,
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    I'm not going to change my life people.
  • 01:00:29
    You're not getting over on the system.
  • 01:00:30
    If you're this, I'm going to wait till the end
  • 01:00:32
    because I just want to enjoy my freedoms.
  • 01:00:34
    No, the system is getting over on you.
  • 01:00:36
    - Yeah.
  • 01:00:37
    - The system of this world that tells you
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    not to submit to a loving Father
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    who wants you and loves you.
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    That's the best relationship, the best deal going.
  • 01:00:47
    So we're going to sing a song.
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    Before we do, I'm going to
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    tell you something I was going to do.
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    We're going to have at all of our sites,
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    we 've got people who are going to be praying
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    coming down forward, and they're going to pray for you.
  • 01:00:58
    These are people who are trained in prayer.
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    They're ninjas when it comes to prayer.
  • 01:01:02
    And maybe you just want to mention
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    how you've had the hair over your eyes.
  • 01:01:05
    Maybe you want to mention that you felt
  • 01:01:07
    something biting on you and you don't know what to do.
  • 01:01:10
    Maybe you want to mention you need a help in that area,
  • 01:01:12
    you need healing in an area,
  • 01:01:14
    you need to feel God's love in an area.
  • 01:01:16
    They would love to pray for you.
  • 01:01:18
    Maybe you want to come forward and say,
  • 01:01:20
    "I keep hearing about this thing of God being a father.
  • 01:01:22
    He's ever been my Father.
  • 01:01:24
    How do I, how do I -- How do I make Him my Father
  • 01:01:26
    instead of some abstract thing?"
  • 01:01:28
    Maybe they'll do what we call leading you to Christ,
  • 01:01:31
    where they say a prayer for you,
  • 01:01:33
    and you come into the Kingdom of God
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    and the family of God.
  • 01:01:35
    So, we're going to do that all of our sites
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    and here, you've come this far.
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    We've hauled in the sand for you.
  • 01:01:42
    We've stuck a horse there for you.
  • 01:01:44
    You got bucked off, finally, you got bucked off.
  • 01:01:46
    That's a good horse. Why not?
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    You know, why not get the full experience
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    and allow someone to pray for you.
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    That's what's coming in just a moment.
  • 01:01:57
    But first, why don't we stand and when we stand,
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    let's sing something together
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    and thank God for this moment
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    and tell God that He's a great master.
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    - Sing this with me.
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    [music]
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    - Let's pray. God, thank You for Todd.
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    Thank You for his words.
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    Thank You for this horse,
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    getting this horse to a new level.
  • 01:05:03
    And thank You for the lessons you've revealed to us.
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    Maybe You're not done.
  • 01:05:06
    Maybe You're still going to give us something else
  • 01:05:08
    before we're gone or in our car.
  • 01:05:10
    Wherever we are, we want to, many of us,
  • 01:05:12
    we just want to say, "Yes, God, You can lead me.
  • 01:05:16
    Yes, You can be on me. Yes, you can.
  • 01:05:20
    You can chart my course instead of me
  • 01:05:22
    just wandering around in a field."
  • 01:05:24
    Thanks for being worthy of that. You're good.
  • 01:05:28
    I pray these things according to the character
  • 01:05:31
    and identity of Jesus. Amen.
  • 01:05:35
    All right, thanks for coming today. [applause]
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    We got prayer folks in front at all of our sites.
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    Thank you.

May 4, 2024 1 hr 5 mins 46 sec

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